When you find that you're persisting down the Other People's Behaviour Is All About Me track and are getting stuck on blame, ask yourself, “Why do I want it to be about me?”Seriously. What are you getting out of making it all about you? Because something about blame does feel purposeful and may even be giving you a sense of importance that would be better felt through valuing and appreciating you, not from being a blame absorber. If other people's behaviour is about you, what is your own behaviour about? Who is your behaviour about? I used to be an equal Read More

Naturally, some women insist that they are just as sexually driven as men. Even today when pornography dominates 90% of the Internet, women remain incredibly naive about men's passion for sex. One woman said: "The basics are this: men like sex and will give affection to get it. Women like affection, and get it during sex. It works out well for both. I believe women enjoy sex More → The post Women who enjoy sexual pleasure appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Women mature sexually much later than men do so a young woman[i] is very unlikely to discover orgasm with a lover. Over time a woman's body may respond to being stimulated by a lover and her mind may respond to the more subconscious turn-ons associated with sexual activity. Women are not spontaneously aroused so it… More → The post Women mature sexually much later than men do appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Some women happily accept the modern media's portrayal of women as complete sexual beings, for whom spontaneously orgasmic sex is as much of a given as it is for a man. Other women find that orgasms do not 'just happen'. Pressure to find answers comes not only from the woman who hopes to enjoy what is supposed to be mutual sexual pleasure but also from her partner who More → The post How do women achieve sexual arousal during sex? appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More

Caroline lived on a farm as a child and was fortunate in having innocent and light-hearted sexual experiences as she grew up. Even as kids they would play the ‘I'll show you mine if you show me yours' game on the bus ride to school. Her mother insisted that Caroline went on the pill at sixteen. She was not bothered about the sex. She simply wanted Caroline to be More → The post Transferring masturbation techniques to sex appeared first on Ways Women Orgasm. Read More