I understand the needs of marketers. The fact is, if you want to sell a website to horny voyeurs and fans of exhibitionism, the name “Public Disgrace” is a lot better than “Practical Rope.”

But when I go to the site and see pictures like the above one, I want to cheer. Princess Donna is the rigger for the site (as well as the devious mind that comes up with the public acts of disgrace the women go through) and she is providing a great service to the rope community.

See, many of  questions I get from everyday ropesluts (and yes, I mean tops and bottoms) are how to integrate the rope techniques into everyday stuff. Not everyone has a bondage frame in their bedroom, or a cross, or even a spanking bench. But other items of furniture - like the one above, a pool table - can be integrated with simple rope techniques. What, a few one-column ties and a two column tie put her in the position above? Easy stuff from any rope 101 class or book.

Practical rope. How to tie someone so that they can be gang-banged on a sawhorse, for example. OK, maybe that’s not exactly your kink that you had in mind, and maybe your elbows can’t touch in back the way that Lorelei Lee can. For that matter, not everyone has the fantasy of drowning in cocks that she seems to be fulfilling…though come to think of it, I know quite a few women who do.

I’m not saying that the site is going to be any kind of rope instruction - it’s not. It’s about sex, and exhibitionism, and public humiliation taken to the extreme (and I’ll have a lot to say about that later, since Sascha and I did some of it ourselves. That word on her chest? It means “cunt” in Russian, and it’s only one of many that were written on her body).

But Princess Donna is someone I would love to have a beer with and just talk about ways to take the classic rope skills and adapt them to everyday environments - or unusual ones, like this one with Sabrina Fox (yes, this site is Wired Pussy, which she also rigs for. She’s also a model. The woman must never sleep). That kind of inventiveness and adaptability is what I really think goes into a great rope top.

It’s a practical skill. I love the new sites that are coming up, everything from expanded shoots from the Twisted Factory to Boss Bondage to the Sergeant Major, but when do we kinksters get our own HGTV site? “This Old Dungeon,” “Trading Masters,” “Project Spankway,” or just a daily talk show with several submissive women talking about recent intense scenes they’ve been in or heard of called “The Whew.”

Or just “Practical Rope with Princess Donna.” I’m tellin’ ya, if this smut thing doesn’t work out, they’ve got a winner there…

(GRUE, for those who are new to the idea, is an event I created called “Graydancer’s Ropetastic Unconference Extravaganza,” and it is modeled after the Open Spaces & Unconference models of self-organizing events. So far there have been five GRUEs, in Madison (WI), Western Michigan, St. Louis, Minneapolis, and the most recent, in Toronto.)

Graydancer, Dart (of DartsDomain.com) and Sascha demonstrate rope gags.

One of the difficulties of setting up a GRUE - really, the only one - is trying to describe to people exactly what it is. Hell, I’ve had very close friends in the rope community say to me “Oh, we don’t need a GRUE here in [insert well-known rope community], we’ve got so many rope events as it is…I don’t think people want another one.”

And therein lies the problem, because it’s exactly that kind of situation that the GRUE is designed to combat. When we’ve reached a point where it’s “…just another rope event…” where we know we’ll see the same classes and the same faces talking about (for the most part) the same things, that’s when it is necessary to step out of the pattern, to have an event where the participants are also the instructors, where we’re all “ho’s, pro’s, & schmoe’s” to paraphrase Laura Antoniou. To have an event where the classes aren’t the same things we’ve talked about before - they’re the things we’re passionate about right now. Every single GRUE - every single one - has had some veteran, jaded rope top or bottom that comes out of it renewed, inspired, invigorated.

I’ve been struggling with finding ways to tell people about this - not because I want there to be more GRUEs, exactly, but just because I think we’re in a danger of too many events that are too similar, and that leads to either apathy or burnout or both. One of the GRUE participants, however, said it incredibly well, and I’m going to quote him here from the GRUEp in Fetlife:

“I actually logged on to this site [Fetlife], which I knew nothing about, after the Toronto GRUE. What I thought I had been invited to by a beloved friend; in order to expand both of our technical interests, turned into so much more. GRUE is not a how to class. The Participant driven format presented me w/ choices I made away from the practical presentations. Instead I found myself in intimate, experienced (both new and wise), visceral discussions about gender identity, jargon limitations, dialogues on submissive mindsets, and a rather intense exploration of cultural, racial, and tabooist prejudices (in and out of the scene) and the ethos surrounding exploring those fantasizes. (pardon my German guilt, I’ll never be your storm trooper)

At the party, later that evening, I had the opportunity to reacquaint w/ participants on a more social level, and fuck- they were fun. One of my most memorable emotives was saying good night to a member that I hadn’t said a word to throughout the unconference, but had shared some time w/ my friend. Through casual observation and the searing light of her enthusiasm over the Saturday, I left the party only being able to thank her for what little I had enjoyed of her, not meeting her.

GRUE seemed to have that kind of “in way deeper than I signed up for” coupled w/ I wish everything was this rewarding sort of experience. I will attend any others in my area.

Sasha, we all admire you. Good fortune. Gray- I’m enjoying the book and thank you JP-great event, intense times, be well everyone- thank you for participating in my life. I am better for you.”

Graydancer inverts Sascha at KOMA Gallery during Toronto's Nuit Blanche 2008

You can see some images of Sascha & I, both at the GRUE and at Toronto’s Nuit Blanche event with Lord Morpheous and others, at the gallery linked to the image above. Questions about the GRUE? Email Graydancer, or listen to the Ropecast - we took one of the sessions, Graydancer’s Fishbowl, and recorded it, and it will be up in its unedited glory soon.

Remember, when it gets very dark…you are likely to be eaten by a GRUE. So next time, bring rope.

I’m here to share the secret with you, so pay attention. Rachel Kramer Bussel has known it for years, but it took me this long to figure it out, and I’m going to share it with you.

How do you get the hot bi babes: cupcakes.

Here’s how it works:

1. Write a post putatively about the bondage technique of tying the breasts in “cupcake” fashion, but really a clever link to a site that you have an affiliate relationship with in the hopes of getting people to sign up for it and funnel cash into your burgeoning porn empire (OK, I’ll wait while you pick yourself up off the floor and stop laughing at the phrase “burgeoning porn empire.”).
2. Have the person illustrating said cupcakes, in this case Sabrina Fox, locate your site while vanity googling and have her decide your content is interesting enough to link with you on various social networking sites like Facebook and MySpace.
3. In the space of a few comments back and forth, invite her to an outdoor camping event. Cleverly imply that due to lack of space and time and convenience she should come early, to “rehearse” the performance you’re doing at the camp, and also that you should share a tent, since it gets cold in those Wisconsin campgrounds, and besides, you’re the perfect gentleman. Really.
4. Proceed to spend most of a week with this person, and discover that there’s much more than just the hot sexy redhead to her. In fact, I’ll tell you a secret: the most charming thing she did was when I took her to Barnes & Noble and I literally had to drag her out of the used book section. Do I have to tell you how hot a fetish model bibliophile really is?
5. Co-present several classes, from rough body play to suspension to ropes 101, start a clips4sale store with her boobs on video, do a podcast or two, and be so convincingly competent and fun that when she does an interview with Fleshbot, she actually mentions you by name.
6. Being Fleshbotted is kind of like being Oprah’d: instant fame and fortune and servers crashing, offers from Angelina and Brad to please come teach them rope bondage, leading roles from Tarantino opposite Salma, and an invitation from Keanu to come play tambourine with his band at the House of Blues. Or an invitation to do a sock puppet scene with Lochai’s wife. Whichever comes first.

OK, admittedly, I’m still waiting on most of #6. But having just dropped her off at the airport, where she’s going home before embarking with the Awesomeness of RopeToppitude himself, Lew Rubens, to Munich for bondage at Oktoberfest, I can finally admit: having Sabrina Fox here in my clutches as a guest in my home for the past couple of weeks has been one of the great pleasures of my life.

And it all came about because of the cupcakes. So now you know.

Good luck.

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Yay, its the third episode! Unfortunately, Live Girl Review had a bit of a set back last week - the show has been deleted from iTunes. I think it’s probably because of “strong prevalence of sexual content,” which is listed in their terms of service as a reason shows may not be included. I haven’t gotten a response back from iTunes Abuse - if anyone has suggestions for me, please let me know. It would be a real bummer if the show wasn’t on iTunes.

In less crappy news: the winner of the goodies from the last episode is Baby Sinead, who is a photographer, model, and hell raiser in NYC. Check out her site - her blog is excellent, as are her boobs.

Here what’s in the show this week!
Reviews
Books: Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships by Tristan Taormino (the book has its own community site: Opening Up) vs Open: Love, Sex, and Life in an Open Marriage by Jenny Block (whose website URL I just have to point out because its hilarious: jennyonthepage.com. Ha!)
Sex Toy: Fun Factory’s Delight - buy through this link and type in the code “livegirl” at checkout and you get a 10% discount
Smut Review: Hospital! directed by Benny Profane and featuring Mandy Morbid, Zak Sabbath, and Caroline Pierce

One Hot Minute
Because I reviewed two books about open relationships, Jamye Waxman decided to share a few tips about how to have a happy threesome.

Bad Press
Here’s why you should think twice about a vaginoplasty - put those muscles to work instead!

Fan Girl Moment
I get fan girly on Marisa DiMattia of tattoo couture blog Needled. She talks all about sex and tattoos and the study she’s been doing on the subject - you can read more about the study in her column Erotic Ink over on Suicide Girls.

Goodies!
This episode’s give aways will go to one lucky commenter who must come on over to the post on Live Girl Review to drop their words of wisdom - not top five or top ten, but anyone who comments before the next episode goes up. The winner will get: a copy of Hospital plus Ellen Forney’s Lust (comics inspired by personal ads).

The next episode goes up on September 24!

Thanks for your support!

Tags: Babeland, baby sinead, Benny Profane, Caroline Pierce, dildo, fun factory, g-spot, jenny block, Mandy Morbid, marisa dimattia, needled, open relationships, Polyamory, sex toy, tattoos, threesome, tristan taormino, vaginoplasty, vibrator, Zak Sabbath

In the first of two interviews from the recent Spankfestival, Graydancer interviews Fetish Model and Performer Sabrina Fox, answering listener questions and including a “live” review of the Punishment Strap from Extreme Restraints. Remember to use your “graydancer” coupon for an extra 5% off.

Direct download: Ropecast9.8.08_SabrinaFox.mp3

Also, Jujun, the sequel to Graydancer’s novel of erotic magic, has been serialized in audiobook format on Podiobooks.com. Check out http://www.podiobooks.com/title/jujun to get chapter 1 FREE. The book will be published in a few months.

Tags: sabrina fox

Greetings from Black River Falls WI!

Spankfestival is in full swing right now, and when we say swing, we’re yes, talking about swingers, pagans, kinky folk, bikers, and librarians. All gather at the NCN Campground for a decadent weekend of debauchery and other de- words.

Sabrina and Graydancer have been busy (as can be seen from the above picture) teaching classes on Fetish Performance Techniques (where she gave Graydancer the all-new-epithet “Fucktard” as part of the performance) and Full-Contact Dom, where she developed the all-new ultimate fighter defense, Cross-Eyed Goofy Fist. Graydancer also returned to his food-service roots and decorated her with rope and sushi for an exclusive dinner party Thursday night. It was during that time that the important culinary discovery was made that while wasabi is not necessarily the best lubricant, it does, in fact, go well with grapes.

No joke. Really. Dip a green grape in wasabi. It tastes good. Trust me.

Last night was “kinko de mayo” and Sabrina and Graydancer worked with Leon (the Instant Expert), Lqqkout, Sarah Sloane, Ms. C and several other models to create a human pinata installation using 5 suspensions, 3 buckets of candy, 6 pool noodles, and hordes of sadistic sweet-toothed perverts. Today they will co-teach with Lqqkout and Nyxx a 4-hour suspension technique workshop and close out the night with a performance (weather permitting) about the dangers of being a red-headed whore of Babylon in the Bible Belt.

Video, interviews, and pictures of sexy, sexy people from Ms. Mayhem will be coming soon. We now return you to your regularly scheduled pornsurfing.

Tags: sabrina fox

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This is the second longform episode of my video podcast Live Girl Review - I’ve done 70 short episodes since I launched the project last November.

Here what’s in the show this week!
Reviews
Book: John Holmes, a Life Measured in Inches
Sex Toy: Sliquid Organics line of lubes
Movie: Erika Lust’s Barcelona Sex Project — that link takes you to Hot Movies for Her, where you can pay per view instead of paying international shipping for the DVD.

One Hot Minute
Sex educator Jamye Waxman gives a tip on how to make a blowjob extra nice with a little help from your fingers.

Bad Press
This episode’s bad press is more an encouragement to be critical of how sex toys are sold and less of a total slam. I share my opinions about the rabbits vibrators, in response to a comment left by Gustav

Fan Girl Moment
I am having fan girl moment over Rachel Kramer Bussel and her new anthology Spanked: Red-Cheeked Erotica, so as part of her month-long blog tour, I interviewed her about erotica, plus quizzed her on her personal interest in spanking.

Goodies! - in every episode I offer up free stuff for commenters on Live Girl Review. I pick one of the first TEN commenters as the winner, and that person receives the following:
Spanked: Red-Cheeked Erotica - the latest erotica anthology edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel
Kelly Payne’s The Judge’s Chamber - yup, a dvd of spanking smut
A bottle of Sliquid Organics lube

[you've missed the boat on this, the comments fill up quick - if you want to be in the running for future episodes, you can subscribe to the RSS feed or you can subscribe over at iTunes]

Magma Toys is also making several of their Phoenix vibes, which I reviewed in episode one, available for my viewers. If you’re interested in giving one a try, comment on this post or email me at dacia[at]livegirlreview.com and tell me in 50 words or less why you’re interested in this toy and what you intend to do with it. These are still available!

The next long episode goes up on September 10th, but I’ll also be doing a few quickies throughout September.

Again, thanks for all your comments, emails, and iTunes reviews - keep ‘em coming!

Tags: podcast, Video

NAWASHI is an erotic urban fantasy, the story of a man who discovers that underneath the world of kink lies a global power struggle. Drawn into it , he struggles to develop his own rope magic and protect his family from the forces which now consider him a threat.

And what do others say about it? Glad you asked!

• “Nobody does kinky deep-character-driven sex-magic urban fantasy like Graydancer.” — Steve Eley, Escape Pod
• “I couldn’t stop reading this book! Graydancer seduces us down an erotic rabbit hole…a suspenseful and gratifying combination.” - Rita Seagrave, Kinkmogul.com
• “The strength that Graydancer gives the womyn in this story is on par with how I feel womyn should be in erotica. Submissive is not stupid nor is it weak and Graydancer’s story illustrates this beautifully.”- Ms. Behavin, Foxy Veronica’s Peach Pies
• “I’m completely and utterly hooked. It contains two of my favourite topics: BDSM and magic. Sure, I have read my share of non-fiction books and articles about both, separately and together, but never have found any fiction that addresses the topics so well, so naturally, so believably.” - Traeonna Wagener, co-author of Creating Magickal Entities

And for those who are wondering - yes, the sequel, Jujun, is currently in production at podiobooks.com, and will be launched any day now.

I’ve just received 100 copies of my novel, Nawashi, to bring with me to various events that I’m traveling to in the next couple of months. Those events are:

* Spankfestival (Black River Falls, WI) - Sept. 4-7
* Central Ohio Perversion Excursion (Columbus, OH) - Sept. 11-14
* Toronto GRUE (Toronto, Canada)- October 3-6

If you’d like a book at any of those places, let me know in advance so I can bring a copy for you. I’d be more than happy to inscribe a copy for you, or whomever. I’ll also have a few CDs of the audiobook version in MP3 format. I’ve a lot fewer of those, so if you want one, now’s the time to let me know.
If you want an autographed copy and you’re not going to be going, well, I can still help you out - just click on that “donate” button on the front page of my site

and send $20 and it will appear on your doorstep. Or mailbox, or…well, you get the idea.

You will also be able to order copies directly from the publisher,  but they do actually lack that personal touch…

Meanwhile, for more of a “how to”…

Lord Morpheous’ book is released! And even better, he has a kickass launch party planned at the same location as the upcoming Toronto GRUE!

It is shipping all last week so if you ordered it online from amazon.com it will come directly from the distrubution centre in the U.S.  I picked up a few copies of my own from my publisher yesterday and here is it is, featuring Toronto’s own fetish model Slinka on the cover.  All of my models I used, I want to express biggest thanks for helping make it a reality for me. It was a long year in the making and I am very pleased with the result.

So, if you are looking for your very own copy, you will be able to get it via book stores in your local city - in the U.S. Borders will be carrying it, (it is a little too racey for Barnes and Noble) here in Toronto, Northbound Leather and Come As You Are, as well as Seductions will all be carrying it.  Amazon.com of course has it and if you walk into a book store and they don’ t have it, you can order it through them using the ISBN # 978-1-931160-63-6  Price is $16.95 - a small price for such a valuable tome.

Now for the big news - the offical launch party for the book will be handled by Northbound Leather at their Sept 6 fetish party at Goodhandy’s Club downtown here in Toronto at Church and Richmond.  Doors open around 10pm, there is a dress code of fetish or play wear and a small cover.  There will also be copies of the book available for purchase exclusively by Northbound Leather at the club.  The stage show is something we are still working on but if you know Goodhandy’s Club then you know we will be able to have the wildest (as determined by the latest ruling of the Supreme Court of Canada) stage show EVER for a book launch!  Most of the models in the book will be at the launch to chat and dance as well I have some fetish models flying in from the States for it.

It is not to be missed!

Tags: Graydancer, lord morpheous, ropecast

Download Bedroom Radio #21

On this episode I interview Sinclair of Sugarbutch Chronicles (and fellow member of BestSexBloggers). We discuss gender, butch/femme identity, bdsm, and erotic blogging. You’ll also be treated to an incredibly sexy piece of erotica read by Sinclair.

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Tags: BDSM, Bedroom Radio, butch, erotica, Femme, identity, masculinity, podcast

In the new Ropecast, Graydancer reads about the introduction to kink of a very nice Dutch fellow, and then brings you to Philadelphia and the Dark Phoenix Dungeon.

Direct Download, or visit the Ropecast for more!

Tags: ropecast

Download Episode #20 of Bedroom Radio (15MB, 24 minutes)

In this episode, I interview the amazing, prolific Rachel Kramer Bussel about her new book Spanked. We talk about our favorite ways to give and get spankings and she reads a very hot excerpt from the book.

Be sure to listen to learn about your chance to win a copy of Spanked for yourself! You have to hear the show to know the rules for the contest, but I’ll give you a hint. This picture of my tushy after a spanking is an important clue:

Other links of note for this episode:
The rest of the Spanked virtual book tour
The Spanked blog
Dark Odyssey Summer Camp

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Tags: Books, contest, Rachel Kramer Bussel, spanked, Spanking

A while back I was sitting at my desk job, bored, and decided to read an article on this cool technique for running meetings called “Open Space Technology.” It was based on the knowledge that, at any conference, convention, or structured meeting, the most productive stuff happens in the spontaneous gatherings outside the planned events. The group that huddles in the hall, that goes out for coffee, that sparks a conversation in between the structured speakers.

The “Unconference,” as it was proposed by the business & tech geeks who founded it, was an attempt to have nothing but those kinds of moments. To come up with a structure that would be self-organizing, self-running, and see what came of it.

“Huh,” I remember thinking. “Wonder if that would work for a kink event?” And like any good top, I decided to experiment on my friends. I chose the catchy title of “Graydancer’s Ropetastic Unconference Extravaganza,” (aka the GRUE) and, well, the rest was history.

Since then we’ve had GRUE’s in Madison, WI, Lansing, MI, Minneapolis, MN and St. Louis, MO. If you plot it on a map it looks kind of like one of those CDC contagious disease forecasters…and we’re about to make it international.

TORO! TORO! TORO-GRUE!

Thanks to my friend the Control Enthusiast, we have a venue, we have time, and we have interest, so we’re throwing a GRUE over the border. You can read about the details here, and we’ll be sure to keep you posted. If you’ve been a participant in a past GRUE - and there are hundreds of you out there, at this point - I’d love to hear what you think of the idea now, long after it’s done. And if you’re interested in knowing more…well, let’s talk. I hear Toronto is very nice in October…

Tags: Graydancer, grue, Rope Bondage

After seventy episodes, I’m mixing things up a bit. My video podcast Live Girl Review has transitioned into a longer format. The show was launched in November 2007 as a short format show; one product was featured in each two to three minute episode. Each episode of the new version of the show features a book, movie, and sex toy review, as well as features like sex tips, products to avoid, and a fan girl moment, as well as giveaways for commenters.

I’ve also got some new contributors: sex educator Jamye Waxman is now a video correspondent on the show, and she’ll be providing sex tips in a segment of the show called One Hot Minute. In addition to being available on LiveGirlReview.com and via RSS, the twice monthly video show is also available on iTunes - and I’ve got an audio version coming once I can sort some things out. The show’s website will also feature written reviews by prominent some ladies you already know and love: Ellie Lumpesse, Essin’ Em, and Madeline Glass.

Here’s what you’ll find in this episode!
Reviews
Book: Dagmar Herzog’s Sex in Crisis: The New Sexual Revolution and the Future of American Politics
Sex Toy: Magma Toys’ Phoenix
Movie: Madison Young’s Writers and Rockstars — you can also see my review of her film Undone here on Live Girl Review

One Hot Minute - new feature!
My good pal sex educator Jamye Waxman is now the sex tip correspondent for Live Girl Review! In this episode, she dishes on deep dicking - or rather, shallow dicking.

Jamye is the author of Getting Off: A Woman’s Guide to Masturbation and host of the Personal Touch video series from Adam and Eve. My review of the first video, Toying With Pleasure was one of the very first videos I did for this site.

Bad Press - new feature!
Highlighting bad things you should avoid! This week’s shame-light (you know, like a bad spotlight?) goes to Vigorect, an “oral gel shooter” to improve erections. Ugh.

Fan Girl Moment - new feature!
I am having fan girl moment over The Wet Spots, and as a special treat, here’s a video of their live performance of the song “Kinky Neighbors.” I also did an episode of Naked City TV about them - you can see it here.

Goodies! - One of the first five commenters at http://livegirlreview.com wins the following:
Spanked: Red-Cheeked Erotica - the latest erotica anthology edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel
The ultimate couples kit - vibes with multiple attachments

Anyone that has been following my Twitter lately knows that I’ve got a pretty serious crush on Thursday’s Child. Sure, all of us flirt on there, but this one is real. I am so lucky to have met Thursday and D and to count them as close friends. I’ve watched them go through struggles and growth over the last few months and I’ve been honored to be a friend to them. Jay and I hope to meet them very soon - plane tickets will be ordered one of these days and we will have them to ourselves.

Lately, Thursday and I have been leaving each other fun little voicemails to titillate and amuse. I’ve mostly been playful, sexy, and tried to have fun. This morning, though, I woke up and had a message from her. It had come in the middle of the night and I had a feeling it would be special. I was right. I knew I couldn’t do the sexiness of this message justice by just describing it. No, my dear audiophiles, you deserve to hear it. Grab the headphones!

Thursday’s Voicemail to Me

You back? Shaking like I was? When I first met Thursday I was instantly attracted to her, we are so similar in so many ways and she felt like the sister I never had. Except, I suppose most people don’t want to do to their sisters what I want to do to her. I have the same curiosities about her skin and her body. We have already warned the boys that they may have to sit calmly in the corner as we focus on each other. They might whine but it will be worth it.

Originally posted at Ellie Lumpesse: Pretentious Pervert

Tags: Phone Sex, sexy audio, sexy message, Thursday's Child, voicemail

Image by Lochai (Kirinawa.com) - Graphic Design by Naughty Secretary

The best sex bloggers collaborate with the best erotic and bondage photographers to produce the best sex blog content you’ll find in one place on the internet.  Here’s a rundown of what you’ll find here (in no particular order other than as it comes to me):

BDSM, Dom, Domme, Submissive, Online D/s, Vanilla, Queer, Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Poly, Psychology, Sexuality, Discussion, Photography, Sociology, Podcasts, Bondage (including beautiful rope bondage by well-respected bondage artists), Erotic Fiction, Tales of Adventures, Sexual Fantasies, Hot Couples, Kink, Fetish, Phone Sex Operators, Professional Sex Writers, Reviews, Photoblogs, Education and Information, Smut, Filth, Flirting, HNT, Networking, Featured Artists, Local Events, Poetry, and even just once in a while a tale about the weird lives we tend to lead.

Represented here are:

Catalina Loves
Marky D. Sade

Audacia Ray
Altered Aperture
Blue-Eyed Vixen
Bottoms Up! …and, and then some
BT Charles
The Butterfly Temptress
Curvaceous Dee
Diary of a Kinky Librarian
Easily Aroused
Eclectic Enchantress
Ellie Lumpesse
Erocrush
Essin’ Em
Exjinn.net
Fanny Lucette
Graydancer
His lolidoll
Journey to The Darkside
Kinkerbelle
Lochai (and Janice)
Long Distance Sub
Married Exploits
Chris Martin
Narration by D
Naughty Secretary
Pornocracy
Priapus
Radical Vixen
Rough Words
Sakura Sarashi
Scarlet Lotus
The Snarling Misanthrope
Stark-Arts
Sugarbutch Chronicles
Sweatshop Sissy
Thursday’s Child
Trufetish
Unspeakable Axe
Wendy Blackheart

Tags: Altered Aperture, BDSM, Best Sex Bloggers, Bisexual, Blue-Eyed Vixen, Bondage, Bottoms Up!, BT Charles, Catalina Loves, Curvaceous Dee, Diary of a Kinky Librarian, Discussion, Dom, Domme, Easily Aroused, Eclectic Enchantress, Education and Information, Ellie Lumpesse, Erocrush, Erotic Fiction, Essin’ Em, Events, Exjinn.net, Fanny Lucette, Fetish, FetLife, Filth, Flirting, Gay, Graydancer, HNT, Hot Couples, Images, Janice, Journey to the Darkside, JWC Images, Kink, Kinkerbelle, Lady Sascha, Lesbian, Life, Lochai, lolidoll, Long Distance Sub, Marky D. Sade, Married Exploits, Ms. Nikki Nefarious, Mystress Lady Evyl, Narration by D, Naughty Secretary, Networking, Online D/s, Padme Amidala, Padmeamidala, Pansexual, Phone Sex Operators, Photoblogs, Photography, Podcasts, Poetry, Polyamory, Pornocracy, Priapus, Professional Sex Writers, Psychology, Queer, Radical Vixen, Reality Nemesis, Reviews, Rough Words, Sakura Sarashi, Scarlet Lotus, Sex, Sex Blog, Sex Bloggers, Sexual Fantasies, Sexuality, Smut, Sociology, Stark Arts, Stuff and Things, Submissive, Sugarbutch, Sweatshop Sissy, Tales of Adventure, The Butterfly Temptress, The Enigmatic Angel, The Snarling Misanthrope, Thursday's Child, Trufetish.com, Unspeakable Axe, Vanilla