Nov 16 2008

Naked Blog Boy Roundup Two!

Category: Exhibitionism, Gabe, HNT, Images, Photography, PornocracyGabe @ 2:41 pm

This is going up significantly later than I’d planned. It seems we only got one entrant to the roundup this time. I’d like y’all to meet my good friend Nelson. He writes at Livejournal under a couple of different names, and he submitted a very cool gallery of photos of him with a blacklight.

NSFW - Blacklight

In this time period I also posted my favorite set of self-portraits, so I’ll put that back out there as well.

Light/Dark

As Elizabeth stated, the Roundup now comes with prizes! This time we were lucky enough to be able to offer the Blossom Sleeve as a gift from the lovely folks at Babeland. I suppose by default the prize goes to Nelson! I hope you enjoy it, and be sure to send us a review after you’ve gotten fully acquainted.


Nov 13 2008

Happy Nekkid Thursday!

Image of Catalina by AlteredAperture.com

Image of Catalina by AlteredAperture.com

Here’s another HNT for you — I’m on my way to NYC today for the Sex Blogger Calendar Launch Party. I hope to see you there tomorrow!! If you can’t make it, be sure to buy your copy. I’ve had a sneak peek and it’s absolutely divine!

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Nov 12 2008

Who Can Take The Njoy Eleven?

Tomorrow I leave for NYC for the 2009 Sex Blogger Calendar Launch Party and to hang out with some of the coolest women in the country for the weekend!  I’m unbelievably excited.  I’m going to somehow manage to get to Urban Gypsy’s office in Manhattan and then go home with her for our pre-party party with Beautiful Rebecca.  I’m in Sapphic heaven!

As if it weren’t enough that I plan to snuggle up right between these ungodly sexy women, Tess has been teasing me with her Njoy Eleven.  Since the moment I saw her review of the Njoy Eleven here on BestSexBloggers.com, I’ve wanted to try it out.  See for yourself, and you’ll know why.  Go ahead, click the review and it will open in a new window.

Now you may actually have thought to yourself, “Ick, you’re going to use someone else’s sex toys?” I thought that myself, and then Tess pointed out, “It’s stainless steel - easy to sterilize.” Oh, they are genius at Njoy!  Now the question is, how do we turn it into a competition and what is the prize for she who can take the Eleven?  Photographic evidence may be necessary.

I’ll let you know how it comes (ya, I know, but I had to).

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Nov 11 2008

Who The Hell Are These Hotties?

They are 12 of NYC’s sexiest women!  They are the official pin-up girls of the 2009 Sex Blogger Calendar.   Curious who is who?  Have you ever wondered what some of our very own Best Sex Bloggers look like?  I won’t give it away, but Em and Lo did!  Click on the image to go to Em and Lo’s Daily Bedpost interview with our own Urban Gypsy and learn a little about these sultry sex vixens, but before you do, try to guess who is who.  Your choices are:

Audacia Ray is a new media professional whose medium is sex. Over the past seven years, she has been a researcher and curator at the Museum of Sex, blogger for sites like Fleshbot and Naked City, author of the book Naked on the Internet, director of the award-winning porn film The Bi Apple, executive editor of $pread magazine, and adjunct professor at Rutgers University. She is also the vice president of Sex Work Awareness, the organization that will benefit from this calendar’s fundraising efforts. Her video podcast lives at LiveGirlReview.com and her blog WakingVixen turns five years old in 2009.

Desiree is a brainy, sexy, foodie, geeky, writer chick from New York who has always had an inclination toward the naughty. Sex is her absolute favorite topic of conversation and has been since way before she had any business conversing on the subject (starting at about age 2). She never backs down from a Scrabble challenge and once scored seventy six points with the word ‘clitoris’. She blogs about sex and culture and life at Baser Instincts

One fateful day, for better or worse, Diva, looking online for a momentary escape from her household chores, stumbled upon sex blogs. Her life hasn’t been the same since. Meeting up with a notoriously perverted blogger triggered a resurgence of sexuality frozen under layers of domesticity and monotony. She started Debauched Domestic Diva to record her new experiences and the conflicting emotions her weekly trips to New York City spurred. Writing her blog, slowly becoming a technical guru and being immersed in a new uber-cool circle of friends has given Diva the spark she was searching for that auspicious day.

Sociologist, blogger, and activist, Elizabeth Wood co-founded Sex In The Public Square as a place for academics, activists and people just plain interested in sex to talk about the intersections of sexuality and society. Dr. Wood writes about sex work, social justice, human rights, and is developing the idea of the “sex commons,” the space created by the increasing number of web sites and blogs where people can share sexual knowledge and expand sexual freedom.

Jamye Waxman, M.Ed is a writer, author, director, producer, host and sex-positive feminist. She is the former sex advice columnist for Playgirl Magazine, the author of “Getting Off: A Woman’s Guide to Masturbation” and the creator of the Personal Touch Video Series for Adam and Eve Pictures. Jamye has been dubbed the “nexxxt generation of sex educator” by wired.com and she is the President of Feminists for Free Expression.

Lux Alptraum serves as Editor of Fleshbot, Gawker Media’s blog about porn,sex, and the web, and Editor of Boinkology. Career highlights include founding and running That Strange Girl (the first altporn site to feature both male and female models), interning at Nerve, and keeping the masses educated about sex for the past ten years. Her writing has appeared in Time Out New York, Best Sex Writing 2008, and GOOD Magazine.

Having been trapped in a painfully awkward phase since, well, forever, with little more than one measly, anonymous kiss under her belt, Mariella’s gift to herself for that pivotal 21st birthday wasn’t the customary forty of Heineken, but the services of a professional pervert. With that pesky virginity thing taken care of, she served a brief stint in Nailing-Everything-That-Moves Land, but ultimately decided to dabble in debauchery on a significantly smaller scale. When she’s not getting lost in the subway or the swirling language of Faulkner, she’s stumbling blindly through basic human interaction, blogging every step of the way.

Rachel Kramer Bussel is a writer, editor, blogger, and reading series host. She has edited over 20 erotica anthologies, including Tasting Him, Tasting Her, Spanked, Rubber Sex, Dirty Girls, Crossdressing, and the non-fiction Best Sex Writing 2008 and 2009. She is Senior Editor at Penthouse Variations, hosts In The Flesh Reading Series, and is a former sex columnist for The Village Voice. She blogs at Lusty Lady and Cupcakes Take The Cake.

Marie “Riese” Lyn Bernard
is a freelance video-maker, journalist, blogger, vlogger, fictionist, copywriter, essayist, re-capper, and aspiring cyber-performance artist based in New York City. She blogs at “This Girl Called Automatic Win” and recaps homo-sexy television at “Automatic Straddle” and for “The L Word Online.” Her work has appeared in Marie Claire, Curve, OurChart, Nerve.com, Clean Sheets and Conversely as well as books including The Bigger the Better, the Tighter the Sweater: 21 Funny Women On Beauty, Body Image, and Other Hazards of Being Female, Dirty Girls, Best Women’s Erotica 2005, Best American Erotica 2007 and the Lambda Literary Award-winning Erotic Interludes 2: Stolen Moments.

Sinclair Sexsmith is a chivalrous kinky writer, queer butch top, and feminist sex educator in New York City. He runs Sugarbutch Chronicles, a personal writing exploration of sex, gender, and relationships, and attempts to celebrate queer theory, sexuality, gender, and culture in ways that are expansive rather than restrictive, liberating rather than limiting. Mr. Sexsmith has degrees in both creative writing and gender studies, and his poetry and erotica has been published in various places, including Best Lesbian Erotica.

Tess may be a New Yorker but she’s really a gypsy at heart. Albeit a gypsy who sees herself frolicking through the forest clad in garments from the season Givenchy was high on the peasant aesthetic, nimbly avoiding stray branches and skipping over rivulets while kicking up her Prada brown suede stilettos. Tess is truly the embodiment of an Urban Gypsy, the title of the blog where she writes dark and moody D/s themed erotica, reviews sex toys, shows off her generous cleavage and generally reveals too much information. Several of Tess’ oh-so-wrong-but-oh-so-right fantasies are scheduled to be published in upcoming erotica anthologies.

Twanna A. Hines is a New York-based writer, editor, blogger and sexpot. Her dating commentary has been heard on NPR, and details about her rendezvous have been printed in Glamour magazine. She has written about sex, dating, relationships, men, pop culture and celebrities for Huffington Post, Lifetime, Nerve, Gen Art, Fast Company and others. AOL placed her site, FUNKYBROWNCHICK.com, on their Black Voices list of best blogs. Twanna’s sites have also been mentioned in New York magazine and online at Gawker Media, EbonyJet, Vibe and elsewhere. She speaks English and Dutch fluently. Get down with the funky brown at Funky Brown Chick.

So how did you do?  Did you guess 10/12 correctly?  8/12? I’m curious, leave a comment, if you would!  And remember, when you buy a calendar, not only do you get twelve months of pin-up sexy, you are actually helping to support the Sex Worker Awareness project that was founded by a group of sex workers and their allies who, after working with $pread Magazine for several years, saw a need for deeper support and advocacy than a magazine can offer. The organization was created around the core belief that all sex workers have a right to self-determination; to choose how they make a living and what they do with their bodies.j

It’s a win-win in my book!  Something for me to put in my office and a way to contribute to my CommUNITY.  If you’re in NYC on November 14th (that’s in just a few days!) then plan to make an appearance at the party.  You can meet me (oh ya, and the pin-ups) and the first 100 to arrive have awesome gift bags.  I know, because I’ve somehow volunteered to help put them together and there is some amazing stuff in there!

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Nov 10 2008

Junk in the Trunk!

Category: Bondage, Images, Ms. Nikki Nefariousalteredaperture @ 11:59 am

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Ok, so Lolli is not “junk” per se, but come on it was a clever title :) I have always wanted to tie someone up and put them in a trunk…it’s a sick lil fantasy of mine. I got to finally do this with a model friend and I had a blast!

I tied her up and I put her in the trunk and took photos, she was sexy of course and I love putting her in ropes. Once she was in the trunk I figured I would just take some photos and be done with it. Then she wanted me to close the trunk on her. Fine. I took her out and tested the automatic trunk door…everything was fine at the push of a button. YAY!

I picked her up and put her back in the trunk and closed the door. I didn’t breath the entire time and after about a minute (though it felt like forever…I get very nervous for my girls in bondage) I pressed the button to open the trunk.

Nothing.

The trunk was still closed. I took a deep breath and pressed the button again.

Nothing.

Shit.

She had no keys on her key ring, it was all buttons. There was no manual entry. I pressed the button again.

Third time’s the charm?

You betcha! Finally the thing opened and I was able to get her out of the trunk. My heart was racing and I was sweating. She looked and me and said, “What’s the matter?” Apparently she had no idea that she was nearly trapped in her own trunk. Oh dear bob what an ordeal!! Well at least I can cross that fantasy off the list, or maybe next time I’ll make sure there’s an actual key that goes into the trunk first!

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Nov 06 2008

Liberator and Bondage

Category: Bondage, Images, Ms. Nikki Nefariousalteredaperture @ 8:12 am

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There are three videos of me tying up hot chicks on Liberator shapes at Liberator.com’s Back Stage area. I had so much fun doing these at the Skin Two USA Pre Pervy Party last year. I had no idea they would actually use them on the site, so I am very happy and honored to be a part of their website. I love their shapes, I love their toys, and I love their latex clothes as well!

Go check out the videos and let me know what you think!


Oct 31 2008

Pink Floyd and a Pregnant Friend!

Category: Altered Aperture, Bondage, Images, Ms. Nikki Nefariousalteredaperture @ 7:35 am

I had a spiritual experience last night. Janice (pictured above) is a college buddy of mine who is diabetic, sings opera, loves purple, has always wanted to be a mommy, and practically lives her life based on Pink Floyd. She’s also one of the silliest sweetest people I know.

Last night I got to see Janice in Columbia, SC. But that’s not all! For one, she is finally pregnant, in fact she is VERY pregnant, with a girl!!!!! Also! She was singing Dark Side of the Moon with a live band in front of hundreds of screaming people! This was the first time she’s ever gotten a chance to sing Pink Floyd in front of others, and the fact that she was pregnant at the same time is nothing less than cosmically awesome. She belted her little heart out and she was damned good, everyone loved her! And she was so cute and adorable with her belly!! *squeeeeeeee* Her kid is definitely going to be musically inclined, that’s for sure.

We only went down to hear her sing and then we had to turn straight around come back home to NC, but I wouldn’t have missed that for the world. It was worth the trip. It was nice to see her, even for only a little bit. It got me thinking about how much I miss some of my friends all over the place and right here in town. I love my friends, they are nutty and crazy and each and every one of them are unique and beautiful. You know who you are!

Tonight is going to be awesome!!! I’m doing that CarnEvil thing tonight and I get to hang out with some local friends, watch belly dancing, watch burlesque, and tie up some bitches. Life, yeah life is good. There will be photos of the event tonight, it’ll be fun to see everyone in costume so stay tuned!


Oct 30 2008

Black and White HNT

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Oct 27 2008

Jenn Again

Category: Altered Aperture, Bondage, Images, Ms. Nikki Nefarious, Photoblogs, Rope Bondage, Shibarialteredaperture @ 2:25 pm

The other day Jenn Martin came over and we were hanging out. The first time I suspended her it was upside down and very involved. This time around we were just chilling in the studio and I decided to do a much easier pin up style suspension on her.

I decided to put this up on CostumeCuties.com because it turned out so cute. But really and truly we were just spending the day talking and laughing and this came of it. I love it when that happens!! Jenn is a model-turned-friend, and that is a rare but awesome thing lol!!

I’m going to the Candy Ball on Nov 15th as a model and a photographer. It’s going to be fun to wear two hats at the same event lol!!


Oct 23 2008

Because I deserve it.

Category: Altered Aperture, Images, Ms. Nikki Nefariousalteredaperture @ 2:32 pm

I’ve got a lot of shit on my mind, trying to deal with a few things. One of which is J’s (the hubby) recent biopsy. We are still waiting on results. Normally I wouldn’t be worried, but the only reason why I am concerned is because J’s dad has melanoma and J’s gotten some atypical results on a biopsy before this one. I hope everything is ok.

Instead of stressing the day away I decided to do something drastic, something I never ever do. I decided to do something to relax. I drew a warm bath and enjoyed a nice soak, a nice smoke, and a nice glass of wine. I only feel guilty a little, after all I should be working. Hrm, maybe I need another bath lol!


Oct 23 2008

HNT!

Category: HNT, Images, Ms. Nikki Nefariousalteredaperture @ 2:31 pm

That’s my butt and my piano.


Oct 22 2008

Naked Blog Boy Roundup 2?

Category: Gabe, HNT, Images, Photography, PornocracyGabe @ 9:51 pm

So I proved a slacker on organizing another Naked Blog Boy Roundup, but I’m going to blame that on Hurricane recovery. Yeah, that’s it. I’ve got no excuse anymore, though. The web needs more naked guys! I’m thinking of setting a target date of Thursday, November 6. If you want to participate, post some pictures of yourself to your blog and send the link to gabe at pornocracy.org. The androphiles are counting on you. Yes, YOU!

And if you don’t know what I’m talking about, take a trip back to August to see the first Naked Blog Boy Roundup.


Oct 20 2008

A Review of VibeReview.com - The Sex Shop I Trust!

Happy New Toy Tuesday. Today instead of review something I’ve got here, I wanted to review VibeReview.com itself. We (bloggers) tend to test and report on a lot of products. We are asked to put our names with a company and expect that what we say is going to be backed up by the store we are representing. We are literally signing our name to it like a presidential campaign, “I am Catalina and I approve this message.”  By the way, I posted this originally at Catalina Loves.com.  It is reflective only of my opinion.

There’s been a lot of talk lately about the blogging review and affiliate program. Some people have been on the fence about which company we should get behind. My nomination and vote goes for VibeReview.com.

No, I don’t get paid to write my reviews from VibeReview.com - guess what? I don’t work for them in any capacity. That frees me up to say that I don’t like a product if I don’t like it. I can write my review to my specs. I don’t have to include any hoaky text, there are no real demands on my review other than test it, write about it, link to it. I choose to be an affiliate, so it works out that if you buy that product through my sites because I recommended it, then great, I get a 20% commission. Don’t plan on making a living this way, but it adds up and you can buy a nice pair of shoes!

If you haven’t noticed, aside from Liberator.com, the only sex toy store I represent is VibeReview.com. I choose to link my brands, Catalina Loves and Best Sex Bloggers.com, with theirs. Why am I so loyal and why is it that I love VibeReview.com and recommend it to other bloggers, and in particular to consumers? Because they have never once been anything but honest and genuine with me. Integrity goes a long way. I feel loyal to them because they are the little guy. They are scrappy. They want business and they provide better customer service than anywhere else I’ve seen. You know how it is - big companies aren’t too concerned about you unless you’re bringing in serious affiliate money.

Look at your choices. VibeReview.com is a fantastic company. Their commitment to the Blogger CommUNITY is so strong that though we haven’t worked out the details, they are willing to help sponsor the Butterfly Temptress Cancer Fund after another toy store (the sex shop I do not trust) rescinded their offer. All with just a phone call from me. No, it’s not that I’m amighty and powerful (well, I am kinda) but that their human compassion outweighs a net loss of income. That’s a company I want to do business with!

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Oct 19 2008

Mark Your Calendars Now: The NYC Sex Blogger Limited Edition 2009 Calendar Launch Party

See You At The Party!

See You At The Party!

Meet Me In New York City!!

Join us for the launch party and buy a copy of the NYC Sex Blogger 2009 Limited Edition Calendar on Friday, November 14, 2008 from 6:30 pm - 9:30pm at The White Rabbit (http://www.whiterabbitnyc.com).

Meet the bloggers who made it happen, and ask really nicely and you might even get your calendar signed. While admission to our party is FREE and open to the public, there will be a cash bar (with Happy Hour prices till 9PM), raffle tickets and calendars to purchase so please come prepared with some green to show your support and join in the fun.

Twelve of New York City’s most dynamic literary and sex positive women, along with photographer Stacie Joy, and the sex blogging CommUNITY have collaborated to create the New York City SexBlogger 2009 Limited Edition calendar in order to support Sex Work Awareness (http://www.sexwork101.com). Sex Work Awareness is an organization that trains sex workers in media skills and educates the public about issues that affect people who work in the sex industry. 12 of NYC’s finest writers, sex educators, film makers, and ordinary women are determined to see the stigma associated with sex work and workers removed.

Included in the calendar are Audacia Ray, Desiree, Diva, Elizabeth Wood, Jamye Waxman, Luz Alptraum, Mariella Ella, Rachel Kramer Bussel, Riese, Sinclair Sexsmith, Tess Danesi, and Twanna A. Hines. A full biography of each calendar model is available at http://sexbloggercalendar.wordpress.com/about.

The first 100 guests to arrive will receive a FREE gift bag from Babeland! Aside from amazing burlesque performers and organic orgasm-worthy cookies from FreeFoodsNYC, you can purchase your very own copy of the calendar. In addition, to supplement our fundraising efforts we will have a raffle, and we encourage you to buy a raffle tickets. $2 for 1, $5 for 3 and $10 for 10 will give you a chance to win prizes that include an Njoy Eleven, a Liberator Ramp, a Liberator Throe, a Rolling Toy Trunk from ForYourNymphomation, and a Museum Signed Print “Ally Bound” by Lochai. The list grows daily. A complete list will be posted on the calendar blog (http://www.sexbloggercalendar.wordpress.com).

If you are unable to attend the launch party, you can still buy your limited edition copy of the calendar directly through the Sex Blogger Calendar website or here on BestSexBloggers.com (look to the right).

About the NYC Sex Blogger 2009 Limited Edition Calendar:
For the latest news, a complete list of bios of each sex blogger featured in the calendar, our sponsors, and our CommUNITY of friends, please visit the Sex Blog Calendar Website.

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Oct 18 2008

As If We Didn’t Have Enough Kink Here - The Week In Kink (#14)

Trust Me... Does That Look Like A Girl Who Would Steer You Wrong?

Catalina’s Favorite Sex Blog Posts Of The Week! Thanks to Altered Aperture who makes me all pretty and then captures it on camera time and time again.

CatalinaLoves.com:

CatalinaSays.com:

BestSexBloggers.com:

Backdoor Bondage Blog:

Into The Attic Blog:

Thursday’s Child:

Dungeon Place:

Mz Berlin’s Blog:

Ms. Nikki Nefarious:

Shared Cindy:

The Urban Gypsy:

Sweltering Celt:

Leather Yenta:

Debauched Domestic Diva:

Curvaceous Dee:

The Butterfly Temptress:

::psst… for more hot sex blog links go to Sugasm.com::

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Oct 16 2008

HNT - The Ultimate Excuse For Exhibitionism

Catalina by AlteredAperture.com

Catalina by AlteredAperture.com

Okay, so technically this is a little more than half-naked, but one could argue that since you really only see my bum a little it still counts!  Besides, I’m looking for a good excuse to show it off!  I’ve been waiting all week for today!  Big round of applause, please, for Ms. Nikki Nefarious who is the photographer behind AlteredAperture.com for making magic happen!

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Oct 16 2008

HNT

Category: HNT, Images, Ms. Nikki Nefariousalteredaperture @ 9:59 am

Happy HNT everyone!

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Oct 13 2008

Purgatory XL

Category: Altered Aperture, Images, Ms. Nikki Nefariousalteredaperture @ 1:06 pm

This past weekend I went to Purgatory, the bi-monthly fetish even here in Charlotte. I had such a good time hanging out with friends and seeing everyone. The theme was military fetish, so I went for the pink pin-up style. mia and I went to this one together and she was so hot!

The shows were cool and I took some photos, of course. Here are a couple from the night, but if you want to see all of them, check out AlteredAperture.com.

The rest of them can be found here!


Oct 11 2008

This Sugasm Is Brought To You By The Best Sex Bloggers

Rigging by Ms. Nikki Nefarious and Photography by AlteredAperture.com

Image of Catalina by AlteredAperture.com (Rigging by Ms. Nikki Nefarious)

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #151? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom.

This Week’s Picks
Stolen Time
“The sigh of a kiss that has been too long waiting is a wicked rush.”

Keeping things hot when everything hurts
“While it’s not as fun for him, what I love about those times is how sexy he makes me feel at a time when I probably feel the most worthless as a lover.”

Like lovers do…
“As soon as I got that groove, he felt it. His body started to tense up and tremble.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
At What Point Have You Crossed The Line?

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Sex News, Reviews, & Interviews
Catalina loves Sgt. Major from Backdoor Bondage and Kink.com
Click Foreplay
The End of the Sex Writer?
Lust Objectified: Lelo’s Lily Vibe
Sex News Roundup

Sex Work
20 Questions With Janet Jacme
Busy Busy Busy

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Backward (One)
The Five Twenties - The Fifth Twenty
i Kissed a Girl
The love for guys in uniform
Natalie Gets Laid
A Night to Remember, ft. Mariella and VibeReview
Talk Dirty To Me
Will you suck it?
Your Gorgeous Polish Girlfriend Won’t Pose Just How You Imagined

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Boymeat’s Boots
HNT: Lucky Heather 2
Kelly Zhang (Met Art)
Radka - OJ

Sex & Politics
Do BDSM and McCain Go Together Like Vinegar and Oil?
Invasion

BDSM & Fetish
3 days
Punished in the school gym
Sex Camp 2008: The Petting Zoo!
slut to the Mailbox ….. This Morning’s Task as Accomplished
Someplace I’ve never been, part 2

Sex Advice
Man-Handles: What to Do with His Nipples?
Sadie’s Advice for Craigslist Dating. Confession #151

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Can Group Sex Get Your Man to Clean the House?
Channeling Jessica Rabbit
How I started paying for sex
Present Genitive
Seven Daily Sins: Lust
Trust

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Oct 11 2008

Happy National Coming Out Day!

Happy National Coming Out Day to One and All!

Today (October 11th) is National Coming Out Day. I encourage all of you to come out. As whatever you are (straight and cisgender people can come out as well, obviously).

I’d like to come out as:

*Queer

*Kinky

*A Femme

*A Dyke

*A Female

*A Woman

*A Nerd

*Disabled

*Awkward

*Young

*Jewish

*Eastern European

*Agnostic

*OCD

*Silly

And oh so much more (read my about me page).

Please feel free to use this space to come out as anything and everything that you are!

Don’t forget; closets are for clothes, NOT for people!

-Essin’ Em

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Oct 10 2008

The 13th Week In Kink

Catalina by AlteredAperture.com

Catalina by AlteredAperture.com

Catalina’s Favorite Sex Blog Posts Of The Week!

CatalinaLoves.com:

Catalina hates Myspace.com
Catalina loves 10 Sexy Things About Men

CatalinaSays.com:

The Good Things List Lives On
Amazing Friends

BestSexBloggers.com:

Sunday Evening Fuck
Crawling In The Dark

MarkyDSade.com:

Princess Donna and Kink.com Launch New Bondage and Public Sex Site: Public Disgrace
Madison Young Gets Tied Up, Caned, and Forced to Cum on Hogtied.com

Backdoor Bondage Blog:

Sgt. Major Puts Fetish Model Charlotte Brooke Through Outdoor Bondage on Sarge’s BDSM Clip Store
Reflections on The Bondage Past - Jade Marxxx and John Blakemore (H.O.M.)

Nawalochai.com:

Shots from Folsom
Folsom Coverage on BehindKink.com

Into The Attic Blog:

Elizabeth
The Zayda J. Hubbub

Thursday’s Child:

Knee Sock Fetish HNT

Over The Top Kinky:

Romanian Hottie Lea Lexis Gets Fucked In The Ass In Public

Bad Bad Girl:

Like Lovers Do

Confessions From My Open Marriage:

There’s a First Time For Everything (Confession #146)

Mz Berlin’s Blog:

Mz Berlin Does Lesbian Love Right in Friends and Lovers with Madison Young

Satine Phoenix’s Blog:

Satine Phoenix is Good Enough To Eat In This Cannibal Fetish Scene from Muki’s Kitchen

Ms. Nikki Nefarious:

Like My Ropes? Buy Them!

TruFetish.com:

Mark Me Yours…

Ellie Lumpesse: Pretentious Pervert:

What’s Wrong With Sex Work?

The Urban Gypsy:

Cleavage of the Day Updated for HNT

Sweltering Celt:

HNT - Getting A Little Leggy

Debauched Domestic Diva:

HNT: aka Cleavage of the Week

Happiness is a Dominant Woman:

Thoughts of Dominant Wives and Submissive Husbands

::psst… for more hot sex blog links go to Sugasm.com::

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