Oct 18 2008

As If We Didn’t Have Enough Kink Here - The Week In Kink (#14)

Trust Me... Does That Look Like A Girl Who Would Steer You Wrong?

Catalina’s Favorite Sex Blog Posts Of The Week! Thanks to Altered Aperture who makes me all pretty and then captures it on camera time and time again.

CatalinaLoves.com:

CatalinaSays.com:

BestSexBloggers.com:

Backdoor Bondage Blog:

Into The Attic Blog:

Thursday’s Child:

Dungeon Place:

Mz Berlin’s Blog:

Ms. Nikki Nefarious:

Shared Cindy:

The Urban Gypsy:

Sweltering Celt:

Leather Yenta:

Debauched Domestic Diva:

Curvaceous Dee:

The Butterfly Temptress:

::psst… for more hot sex blog links go to Sugasm.com::

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Oct 03 2008

The Week In Kink #12

Image of Amber Rayne Courtesy of BackdoorBondageBlog.com

Catalina’s Favorite Sex Blog Posts Of The Week!

CatalinaLoves.com:

CatalinaSays.com:

MarkyDSade.com:

BackdoorBondageBlog.com:

Nawalochai.com:

IntoTheAttic Blog:

Waking Vixen:

The Accidental Blowjob:

Radical Vixen:

Mz Berlin’s Blog:

Satine Phoenix’s Blog:

Sugarbutch Chronicles:

Ms. Nikki Nefarious:

TruFetish.com:

Ellie Lumpesse: Pretentious Pervert:

Debauched Domestic Diva:

Sweltering Celt:

BestSexBloggers.com:

::psst… for more hot sex blog links go to Sugasm.com::

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Sep 28 2008

An Interview with Sgt. Major from Kink.com and Backdoor Bondage

Sarge and Claire Adams on Backdoorbondage.com

Sgt. Major might be better known as the Kink.com dom with the mask on. He’s made more than a few appearances at Kink.com and has just recently done a shoot with Nika Noire. What you might not know is that the Sarge has his own site and makes his own content. Where does Claire Adams go when she wants to hand over her power? To BackdoorBondage.com, where Sarge gave her what she needed. It is really a sublime scene. Lucky Catalina - I get to talk to Sarge and Maya Matthews on a regular basis, so I asked a few questions I thought you might be interested in knowing.

How did you end up working with Kink.com? Do you still work with them?

I met Matt Williams at Bondcon 2003 in Vegas. He and I became very dear friends and when they tried to start Bondage Trials I applied for it and have been guest rigging for them ever since that time. I still to go out from time to time to guest rig for them they are like a second family to me. But it is really important for people to know that I have my own place that allows me to do the things that I really love them most. I try to keep my bondage as close to H.O.M. as possible.

From where does the Sgt. Major persona originate?

Well after over two decades in the Martial Arts I refuse to call myself Master. I think the word is over used in Martial Arts training as well as the BDSM lifestyle. So I picked the one rank in the military that even the officers would not fuck around with. I have never served, but have a great deal of respect for those that do. Hence I decided on the term Sgt. Major.

Do you and Maya Matthews live a 24/7 lifestyle?

Yes, she is the air that I breathe. For me, without her, life would have no color. We have a slave manual and view it as a living document. Our lifestyle is very well suited to how we want to live.

Where does Backdoorbondage.com come from? How would you describe your content? Who are the major players?

Backdoor Bondage was actually Maya’s idea because she knows I am such an ass man and love to tag hot women in the ass as I clamp one hand around their throat and the other over their mouth. I used to have Bondage Barrix and wanted to redefine my style to look a bit more streamlined.

Maya and myself are the primary players. I have become really close with many of the models that we work with. Amber Rayne will be on out site as long as she wants to be along with other girls. John Blakemore is a huge player on my site even though he will not appear on film. It’s hard to believe that the father of modern bondage or the main man from H.O.M. is my friend and actually takes the time to help me out.

What is the main difference between your work with Backdoorbondage.com and Kink.com as you see it?

Well at Backdoorbondage.com I don’t have as many shooting rules. I will do more with abductions and tend to let a girl cry if she wants to go there. Working at Kink.com has allowed me to do some of my best work ever because of the manpower there. I can just rig and when I am done I walk off the set - I don’t have to coil rope or clean dildos or ass hooks. At my place I am a jack-of-all-trades.

I guess I like to get more physical with the girls at my place because the only one I have to answer to is Maya. When I shot Sarah Jane Ceylon for my site she had huge bruises on her inner thighs for over two weeks. I could never do that at Kink.com because the talent department would snap their collective feet off in my ass.

Why the mask? Do you have a mask fetish?

Two words, vanilla fuckers. I wear it now because Maya loves it and says that it really makes me different. At first it was because I did not want people in my community to know, now it’s more about the guy behind the mask could be anyone. Many women like it because it allows them to fantasize about any man abducting them. Many people have spoken out about it, but they can go fuck themselves because it caught Maya’s attention. If I were ever to work for a company like Kink full time I would take it off, but right now I think its different and with all sorts of fluffy shit being produced these days, different is not so bad.

I notice you doing more abduction/rape fantasy scenes, is that something new or something newly revisited?

Rape fantasy and abduction finds its way into every sexual fantasy I have. This is not recent at all and I would have gone deeper into this, but the far right wing and their desire to jamb their views down people’s throats caused me to stop doing it. Nowadays the credit card processors can also fuck with a guy for doing it, so I have to be careful. Make no mistake about it, if I get the chance I want to keep going with it and go deeper into edge play. There is a reason why most women have a forced sex fantasy - they don’t want to really be raped, but they do want to be forced on their own terms - at least the chicks I fuck like it, my sweet Maya loves it.

Do you make the content for Backdoorbondage.com in your home, have a compound (like IntotheAttic.com), or do you shoot in a studio?

When ever I go out to shoot for Kink I always shoot in San Fransisco, sometimes we fly models in and we shoot in the basement of our home. I love the old warehouse or construction site look. I really have to watch what I am doing because the vanilla folks where I live would not understand. About the only place I really don’t want to shoot anymore is a hotel room, I think that really screams new guy.

If you had a magic genie and could make three wishes, which three women would you like to see appear at your doorstep?

Well given the fact that they would agree to be bound and molested, shit Sara Palin does not do it for me so i guess I would have to say… I hate to say this, but now that Brittany is working out again and appears to be getting her collective wits back, i would love to put an ass hook in her and tie it off to a hair tie, my guess is that she would look great hogtied.

Alicia Sacromone is 20 years old and fair game, she is one hell of a sexy gymnast.

I would really like to put Jessica Alba in some real bondage not that shit she has been featured in, bitch needs a crotch rope not that fluffy goddamn glam shit.

Do you see a conflict between being a big, badass Dom and also being a loving and caring partner in a relationship?

No only people with small dicks think that way, a Dom does say sorry or I was wrong or I love you. Let’s be fucking clear about this one, the power is given to us, that means that subs have the power. Try hanging some vanilla bitch from you rafters and taking a flogger to her pussy then ass fucking her. Then get ready to spend the next 20 years of your life not dropping the soap in prison.

A scene is all about respect. That does not make me a service top in any way either. You talk to any bitch who have ever played with me, I mean really played, and they will tell you I can get really physical and very aggressive. At the same time they can shut the interaction down with a safe word and be as safe as a babe in mom’s arms. I do not allow myself to be topped from the bottom, so if that starts I will get into a girl’s shit quickly. But on the same hand, I am not the type to think that Doms have some special status just because they are Doms. If a guy is strong enough to be gentle and knows when to turn up the heat, most likely he can read his sub and that means to me he is keyed into energy and realizes that people have different needs that change constantly… well I guess he would be OK in my book.

Is there a connection between the discipline and power structure of Martial Arts and the discipline and power structure of D/s?

Its been said that in order to be a good top you have to have been on the bottom. I guess that is where I have been on the bottom doing Budo training (martial arts). Respect is key in both areas and power comes in many forms.

Soft does not mean weak, and if someone thinks that way they to me are clearly a knuckle dragging asshole. All the people I work with are very attractive women who could be view as soft. If you know anything about this lifestyle you know subs are not weak, indeed they are some of the strongest fucking people I have ever known.

Now apply that same concept to Budo training, there are some guys who think soft is not good, to me they are clueless dumbshits. You take a tire iron and I will take a bamboo escrima stick, and I will kill you dead as Julius Caesar, that’s a promise. Fuck, there are way too many similarities to get into because they lifestyle and Budo are almost the same. People come into both seeking something, and all too often someone with too little knowledge who takes themselves way to seriously has to lord their power over others to try and justify a tiny dick.

I heard through the kinkvine that you are writing a book. What’s that about and how is that coming along?

Indeed! it is going to be the accounts of a young boy turned man and his love of bondage. The pathway of my journey has allowed me to spend time with the best people I have ever met in my life, including Maya. She is actually the one that inspired me to do it. In short I am going to chronicle the ascension of a guy from Vanillaville, USA into the world of BD/SM porn. I used to be a card-carrying Republican and a homophobe. Well, that has all changed to a point where I needed to let those poor dumb trapped bastards in Vanillaville know that tying up women and beating there asses is a good thing. The journey is understanding that and finding the women who want it done to them. The title speaks volumes about the book but I can’t give it away at the current time. I have big plans but its going to take a ton of work that will reflect a shit load of humor and some sorrow that I hope some people can avoid as they find their way.

And finally, since I am obsessed with cereal, I asked him, “What is your favorite cereal,” to which he replied, “I love shredded wheat, frosted naturally.” I love Sgt. Major - I, too, love shredded wheat, frosted! We should have no problem deciding on breakfast in the morning when our paths cross.

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Sep 28 2008

Every Review Should Be This Hot!

Editor’s Note: This is cross-posted from Birds Are Smart, the winner of our Twitterific Flash Fantasy contest.  She wrote a review of the great sex toy she won and gave me permission to repost it here.  Enjoy!

It came in the mail last week. The Rock Chick I won from The Best Sex Bloggers for my Twitter-length story. I was pretty excited. I called him up right away. “I got my new toy!” I said.

“Whose toy?”

I hesitated. “It’s mine,” I said, “But you get to play with it.” (Have I mentioned I have a toddler in the house? I’m regressing rapidly.)

“I prefer to think of it as ours,” he said.

I accepted that. “Can I try it out?” I asked, eager to experiment. I’d already taken it out of the package. The pink silicone was softer than I’d expected. Since the vibrator is not integral, the whole C-shaped contraption is pliable. A little one-speed bullet fits in the end.

“Bring it tomorrow,” he said, “I might want to watch.”

“Tomorrow?” I said, disappointed. “Not now?” I fiddled with the bullet, making it buzz against my hand.

“What are you doing?” he asked. “Getting ahead of yourself? Go put it in your handbag now so you can show it to me tomorrow.”

I wrapped it in a plastic bag. You could still sort of see the shape, if you looked in my bag. I’m not in the habit of carrying anything like that! All the next day I was hyper-aware of what my bag contained. That fleshy pink curve with the vibrating tip: even if you didn’t know what it was, it would look obscene.

Dinner time could not come soon enough for me. I always look forward to seeing him, and the promise of after-dinner adventures made it hard to sit still at my desk.

We had a late dinner. When we’d arrived at the restaurant, the lot was full of cars, but when we left it was dark and only a few remained. His was the at the far end of the lot. We walked around it to the passenger side. “Let me hold that,” he said, taking my purse from my hand and setting it on the trunk of the car.

He pulled me against his chest for a kiss and I pressed the length of my body against him. His hands smoothed down my back, squeezing me closer, then caressed and cupped my ass. A little gasp of pleasure and desire escaped me. His big hands cradled my bottom, pulling me up onto my toes. I couldn’t get enough of his mouth on mine. I twisted my body a little to rub my nipples back and forth across his chest.

He spun me around so I was leaning back against him. His hands slid under my shirt, squeezing my breasts and pinching my nipples through the thin lace of my bra. I couldn’t help crying out. I heard a car door closing and a motor start across the lot. “That was the last car,” he murmured in my ear, breath warm and enticing. “Go ahead and moan, baby.”

He twisted my left nipple hard and I gasped. “That’s right,” he said. I tilted my head to the side, twisting up towards him for another kiss. And then I heard an unexpected buzz. I looked down again, at his right hand holding my Rock Chick, adjusting his grip after twisting the vibe to on. He bent us forward for a moment and his hand and the toy disappeared under my skirt. He pressed it against my panties. I could feel the vibration along the whole length of my labia. My legs shook.

“Take off your panties,” his voice said in my ear, low and matter of fact. I looked around. The lot was empty. There was a fence and another empty lot in front of us, some bushes to our left. “Go on,” he said encouragingly.

I did as he said, bending forward, leaning back against him for stability. I could feel him hardening against my ass and I stood up slowly, thinking I would let us both savor the moment. But as soon as I was upright again his fingers were my nipple and his teeth were on my neck and rational thought left me. He had the Rock Chick under my skirt again, smooth against my slipperiness, the vibe buzzing near my clit and the curved end pushing insistently against my cunt.

I tried to contain the sounds inside me. It wasn’t easy. The vibe was teasing me, the curved silicone slipping slowly between my pussy lips was the perfect size. It stretched me but slid in easily, and my hips pressed forward without my volition. He pressed it into me slowly. The vibe slipped away from my clit and I made a little mew of disappointment. But as the curved end reached its target, the straight end lay fully against my labia and clit, transmitting vibrations that I could barely withstand.

His arm around my chest tightened as my knees began to buckle. His hand slowly rocked the vibe forward and back. Or maybe that was the motion of my hips. The curve against my G-spot hurt. I couldn’t form any words to say so. The intensity of the inner and outer stimulation was beyond my tolerance. I was trying to twist away from him, to pull myself forward and down to the ground. Pleasure exploded through me and I heard myself half sobbing, half screaming.

His grip on me never slackened. He held the Rock Chick still inside me as my orgasm subsided. I lay back against him, panting. I could hear him whispering in my ear, “Good girl, I love it when you cum for me, good girl,” and I realized he’d been talking to me all along.

The Rock Chick was still wedged against my clit and G-spot. He moved it a little. A jolt went through my body. He pushed it more firmly against me. I moaned and braced my legs. He began rocking it back and forth again. And again, almost instantly, the intensity ratcheted up past what I could bear. My head thrashed back and forth. My elbow banged the car. My body pitched forward against his arms as I groaned and yelled and came.

“Are you okay?” he asked me, pulling me gently back against his shoulder. The Rock Chick didn’t fall out as he spared an arm to smooth back my hair.

I tried hard to make my lips form a Yes.

“Yes?” he repeated. “You’re okay?”

“Yes,” I breathed, nestling my head under his chin.

He kissed the side of my head. “Ready for one more?” he asked.

“No!” I said. This time the word burst out of me.

“Yes,” he said. “One more for me.”

“No!” I said again, but his hand was already back on that diabolical toy.

I felt weak as a kitten but still my back arched. He turned me around so I was bent forward over the hood of the car and I collapsed onto it gratefully. He lifted the back of my skirt. I could feel the night air cool against my damp skin. He shifted me forward a little, so my pelvis was against the side of the car, forcing the Rock Chick’s still strongly-buzzing vibe tight against me.

I could feel my juices running down my leg. His hands were squeezing my bare ass. I was still mumbling “No, no.”

“No?” he said. “Okay, baby.” His hand landed on my ass with a firm smack. The impact pushed me against the car, changing the angle of the Rock Chick, jolting it against my G-spot. I yelled. He smacked me again, just above my thigh. The sting felt wonderful, but the Rock Chick was making me desperate. I couldn’t stop saying no.

He kept spanking me, fast, sharp swats, moving over both my ass cheeks. Every blow drove me closer to orgasm. I was drooling. If I’d had any self-consciousness left I would have felt embarrassed about the grunts and cries I was making, about my naked ass being reddened in a public parking lot, about the fact that I was cumming, again, clawing at the car trying to find something to hold onto, thrusting my hips against the fender, yelling inarticulate syllables at the top of my lungs.

As my orgasm subsided he slipped the Rock Chick out of me. He bent forward over me, holding and covering me. My cheek rested on the car hood. My cunt ached and my ass tingled. His hand covered my head, grounding me. We stayed that way for a few minutes, his voice and his breath bringing me back to the world.

“Ready to stand up?” he asked at last. I sighed. I was a bit stiff. Still, part of me wanted to rest there all night. He helped me get up.

“I think I like our new toy,” he said, as he helped me straighten my clothes. “Thank you for winning it for us.”

“Thank you for helping me test it out,” I answered. He opened the car door for me and settled me in my seat. “Let’s go back to your house and I can show you how grateful I am.”

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Postscript:

I know the theory of the Rock Chick is to sit up and rock back and forth. I like that ok. But the reason I reserve it for times I’m all alone in the house involves me laying on my stomach, maybe on top of a pillow. That thing just makes me too damn loud! I’ve never had such wild orgasms on my own before. Of course, I don’t do it without permission. So in a way, someone’s always listening.

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Sep 26 2008

Sugasm #147

Image provided by PhotosByPriapus.com

Image provided by PhotosByPriapus.com

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #148? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom.

This Week’s Picks
Amazing
““You’re lucky I’m not being mean right now.””

Cum Squirt With Me. Confession #131
“Not much research has been done on the female orgasm in general, much less this seemingly new erotic marvel.”

Jealousy, Pornography and the Boundaries of Blogging
“I search to be a sexually free, independent and satisfied woman without the stigma of slut yet with the positive implications of slut.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
Blue Fantasy, Red Silk Rope

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Sex News, Reviews, & Interviews
DVD Review: “Hostel Lupus” (Lupus Pictures)
Lady Sascha Reviews the Light-Of-Love T
Sarge Ties Up Charlotte Vale On Hogtied
VibeReview Fantasy: Decadent Indulgence

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
The Enigmatic Angel Finds Out Just HOW Kinky She IS
Fetish Fridays: Interview With A Sissy
How Grey Does Your Garden Grow?
Rock Me Sexy Jesus
We don’t plan to stop
Where Do I Fit In The Picture
Why I hire escorts
Why, Oh Why Do I Like Watching My Wife Get Fucked
You Are Beautiful Tonight

Sex & Humor
Overheard In BDSM

BDSM & Fetish
Bonds of Love
Brutal Bastinado And Intense Sadistic BDSM
Don’t Slam The Door
Exceeding My Expectations
Meeting with BS 4
Mistress or Lusty Bitch?
Public Displays of Discipline
Renewing and Reviewing: Rule 5
Sarge Says: The Vale That Is Thin Enough For Me
Sex and Submission Round 2 Report: Mz Berlin, Mark Davis, And Bondage
She works hard for a living…

Sex Work
Satine Phoenix Is A Sinner? Repent Repent Repent!

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Clips and Clamps
Feather Fan HNT
Half-Nekkid Thursday: Sunny Side Up

Sex Advice
Bend over boyfriend how to make him want anal sex
How To Put On A Condom In The Dark
Man-Handled: What Makes the Perfect Blowjob?

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Being Alone
Catalina loves Fucking Mr. F (In My Mind At Least)
Chasseur
Fuck My Mouth
Horny
The Long Kiss Goodnight
Making out in the air part1
One
What She Forgot - Another Friday Night Bedtime Story
While it rains outside…


Sep 26 2008

The Week In Kink (#11)

Image Courtesy of http://dungeonplace.com/

Image Courtesy of http://dungeonplace.com/

The Week In Kink is cross-posted in an abbreviated format to save space.  Please click The Week In Kink #11 to read the original post.

CatalinaLoves.com: Catalina loves Kink and the Folsom Street Fair
CatalinaSays.com: Just Because It’s Fall Does Not Mean Tess Should Wear Turtlenecks
MarkyDSade.com: The Best, Most Sadistic Bondage Video Ever Done by Sgt. Major
BackdoorBondageBlog.com: An Open Letter to Chanta Rose about Nika Noir: Dom to Domme
Nawalochai.com: Sexies Awards Party and Polyamorous Pride Weekend
IntoTheAttic.com/Blog: Synner
Essin’ Em: Sexuality Happens: Come Get Your Knife
The Accidental Blowjob: Sex Toys and Adult Toys: The Bad List
The Femmes Guide: How To Have A Gorgeous Beach Body
Mistress Matisse’s Journal: Fundraiser for burn victim Martha Manning (owner of Seattle’s Lesbian bar, “The Wildrose”)
Mz Berlin’s Blog: Memes, Dreams, and an Update About TMS
Satine Phoenix’s Blog: Satine Phoenix is Food Fetish Lesbian Orgy
Lady Sascha’s Blog: All Tied Up and Nowhere To Go
Sugarbutch Chronicles: Sugarbutch Star: Eileen
Alessia Brio: The Best $5 I Ever Spent
BestSexBloggers.com: The Last Toy Contest of September is Open To Everyone!

::psst… for more hot sex blog links go to Sugasm.com::

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Sep 21 2008

To The Moon, Alice!

The Glass Moon Plug

The Glass Moon Plug

It’s not often that I get to write reviews, so I’m excited to write about my experience using the Glass Moon Plug on my lovely, submissive, painslut wife, Catalina. Now I must qualify the submissive and pain slut components as being mere facets to an ever more iridescent jewel, but… the submissive pain slut is one that for now I have sole access… so there you go.

She lay on her stomach, nude, as I rubbed her skin, the tender backs of her legs, her sweet, soft ass cheeks, the small of her back. These are the places a lover knows. Not where to touch, but how to touch. After eight years one learns how to touch one’s love. Tonight her vibe was open, and slutty. Submission is rarely offered as an appetizer, but I know the signs. She doesn’t want to give, she wants to be taken, forced to drink from the fountain that gives something in her nourishment, though her ego resists.

She is at rest in her body, pooled in the act of being touched. The butt plug is out, she knows what is coming, so there’s no need to pretend that anything else is going on… i part her cheeks, and place the tip of my index finger against the dead center of her pink, perfect ass. I don’t push, I just tickle the nerve endings, and feed the creature that lurks just beneath the surface of my sweetly aloof Catalina. She of the strap on and glamorous life. A drop of perfectly chilled lube his her sphincter and she clenches, and gasps… which also squeezes her moistening pussy, and forces her to then open to me all over again. She opens her legs wider, because she wants her pussy touched. She wants to be spread open, inspected… judged. The judgement… that’s a new one. That’s a hunger that I haven’t fed much. All things in their time.

I tell her that I’m going to stretch her tiny slut ass, and she moans. Her body is deeply relaxed. At this point I’m almost a shaman. I’m working on a level beyond the purely physical, and bordering on spiritual. I slide my two index fingers into her ass, and instantly start spreading her. She gasps, and her whole pelvis unlocks, and the energy flows. This is almost yogic. The act is so loving and trusting on a deep level, and yet to the outside I am slapping her flesh, and telling her what a slut she is, and how she’s my property, made soley for my pleasure, and that she’s going to suck my cock dry… the usual D/s stuff. I let the lube flow down the crack of her ass, into her open cunt. She’s open. She wants to hurt. She wants to be pushed. I slide my fist into her cunt and she goes stiff, and shudders into the pain until she’s whispering the filthiest things you’ve ever heard. I smile.

I pick up the Moon Plug, and take pleasure in the smoothness, and weight. It’s a substantial piece of mass. I place the tapered end against Catalina’s slutty ass, and press. I can tell that this hurts, and she’s being a good girl by pushing back, so I start rotating the plug as she pushed against it, and it slid into her ass, with a shining moment of pure overload, where my Catalina gave herself over to the pain, and submitted. Now she has left her responsibilities, worries, and all pressures far away, leaving only the moment, and the desire to experience, and please. She breathed into the sensation, and her body shifted to accommodate this dense, smooth weight filling her.

She relaxed into it, and told me how good it felt to feel so full. I told her to sit on my cock, reverse cowgirl, and as she lowered herself, I felt the pressure against my cock, making her pussy incredibly tight, and the sensation much more intense. The reciprocal pressure against the plug, made her legs shake with pre orgasmic intensity. She would rock back and forth, fucking me, and the plug, and the base would press against my pubic bone. She leaned forward and slid a glass dildo up my ass, and we set up a rhythm that built up to a fever pitch, with my sweet Catalina telling me all the filthy things she wanted me to do to her. Humiliation. Debasement… the stuff you only tell your lover… it was hot. I tapped my fingertip against the base of the plug, and she told me that she felt it throughout her whole pelvis.

I pulled her hair back, hard, and pulled her back against me… my cock deep inside her, and the plug painfully pressing against us both. I grabbed her tender nipple and twisted it harder than usual, making her mouth open to my kiss. She was lost in the bliss of pain space. Masochism. I told her that she existed just to fuck me like this. To be my whore, and she murmured assent to everything. I told her to come, and she shuddered as I roughly rubbed her swollen clit. She reached a critical mass, and lunged forward, fucking my ass with the dildo, while her cunt contracted around my cock, and her body fought rigidity with the desire for more. I held out until she had to get off my cock, and I grabbed her hips and hit her cervix with a strong spurt of come, courtesy of the prostate stimulation of the dildo. It felt incredible, and it merged with her orgasm, and became our orgasm. She was so far past overload that I was holding her on me, telling her to take it. Ride it out.

A sob broke the spell, and I released her. She fell forward, and I quickly, and gently removed the plug. I pulled her close, and kept the orgasm going by kissing her neck, and holding her hair taut, until she melted into my arms, crying and a little embarassed, but happy and spent.

I never really saw the point of butt plugs, never really thought that just having one in was erotic, but Catalina fell in love, and whenever she has it in, she’s a very good girl for her Daddy.

This experience was amazingly erotic, much more than I expected. It was hot to see, to do, and to feel against my cock. Get one.

[Thank You To EdenFantasys.com for the opportunity to properly research and review this product!]

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Sep 21 2008

What I Read at Dirty Words Night by Rachel Kramer Bussel

Category: Books, Filth, Lusty Lady, Professional Sex Writers, Rachel Kramer Bussel, Sex, SmutCatalina Loves @ 12:40 pm

I noticed in Dirty Words that there were entries for “Dirty Sanchez” and “Dirty Talk” but not “Dirty” itself. So I wrote something, very on the fly, two hours beforehand. “Did you really write it two hours before?” my friend Flora asked me. “You always say that.” But I really did. I was in a kind of dark headspace and writing about it helped, and I’m glad I did. I forget sometimes to journal, to write, to capture things as they occur, before they utterly change on me.

And I got utterly seduced by the second person. I’ve used it so sparingly in the past, and think that’s its proper place. I never really studied much in the way of proper English, but I realized that I write in second person when I want to write something very personal, but also distance myself from it. It’s not “I,” not “me,” but “you” even though “you” is really me. I think why it works is because by saying “You,” even though the listener/reader knows the writer is often using “you” as a substitute for “I,” it draws them in. It could be talking about any “you” out there in that crowd.

It’s seductive, an instant come-on, whereas “I,” which I use so much, by comparison sounds haughty, audacious, bragging. “I” can only be about the author, whereas “you” takes on a universality that is broad enough to invite everyone in. In so many ways, it’s more confessional. I’m fascinated by it. The other piece I wrote was called “Memories” and it was one of two breakup erotica stories I wrote back in 2004 that I’m glad I did, but still killed me to write.

I felt stronger after I wrote this, and I actually walked into Happy Ending with one idea of how my night would go, and the night, and the people in it, surprised me, in a very good way. I don’t know if that has anything to do with the writing, but I’m glad I got the words out. I think I sounded more confident than I usually do when reading and I credit the second person for it. And because this is the internet, you even get links. Read at In The Flesh Reading Series, September 18, 2008.

“Dirty”
by Rachel Kramer Bussel

You look up a piece you wrote in 2003 about being “dirty,” one that now makes you cringe the same way those artifacts of childhood creativity your mom has saved does. It feels juvenile, the words a weak version of who you are or maybe who you were. But still, they are there, on the Internet, forever, and they say things like:

I want to be nervous, a little bit scared, uncertain. I want my clit and my pussy to be scared too, to try and anticipate what will happen next and be thrown off guard by a slap or a pinch or a pull. I want the pain of a hand falling full force against my ass, making it burn and seethe, and knowing that there’s more waiting for me. I need that fear, that edge, to hover over. I need my lover to act differently with me than they do on the street, to treat me rougher or meaner or more fiercely, anything that distinguishes our sex from our average conversation.

You’ve almost forgotten what the good kind of Dirty is like, the kind where you do the walk of shame, or the subway ride of shame, and shop at Kmart before work. The kind where you push everything else in your head aside to whisper fantasies into your cell phone, letting the heat wash over you. The kind where sex becomes central, a daily part of your being, like breathing, not a burden or a worry or a stress, not just a word in your book title or MySpace slogan devoid of meaning. That part makes you feel the wrong kind of Dirty, the slimy kind where you almost can’t look at yourself in the mirror, wondering if you’re living the wrong life instead of being shacked up somewhere with babies and calm.

You forget what Dirty really feels like, or you remember in stolen moments, flirtations and forbidden fantasies. You debate wearing a dress, or lingerie, or nothing at all for a calendar, wonder if you’ll feel about posing nude as you do about HBO showing you masturbating forever, an endless reminder of memory of wantonness. Part of you wants to be captured like that, and part of you wants to hide, save it for someone special. As much as you know that “dirty” is always subjective, that sex and judgment and what’s proper and what’s not are all in the eyes of the beholder, the words that flow from your fingers you’re pretty sure are universally “dirty.” Your work starts to take a dark turn, full of rape fantasies and bukkake and dual blowjobs and crying during spankings. They say things like:

I pin her arms down and can feel her thrashing beneath me. “Don’t,” she says, letting out a whimper as she tries to undo my hold on her. I go slower even though I want to shove my way into her cunt, hurt her with my cock. I go slow so we can both savor the feel of me taking this from her. “No,” she says again, this time more quietly, and I chance lifting one hand to hold it over her mouth. I had no idea how hot that could be, to have a girl who’s struggling with her desire, who’s wet as can be but is trying to protest. It may be an illusion but it’s one I’m buying.

You wonder if you haven’t chosen the wrong profession, wonder if sex is not the topic you should cover by day, then obsess over at night. You get confused when people want your opinion about it, yet you are drawn to it over and over. The gap between that person, that persona, or some mix of the two, the girl from 2003 with all those yearnings, and the girl in 2008 whose yearnings are of a far more maternal nature, grows bigger.

Yet the words keep coming, even as Dirty itself becomes mundane. You have a dream/fantasy, or fantasy/dream, you’re not really sure which. There’s a girl—you don’t know exactly what she looks like, but she’s pretty, and her very presence turns you on. She’s kissing your lover, right there in front of you, soft, and then less soft. You’re part of it but you’re not, there to look and observe and maybe dictate, but not to join. You don’t tell anyone, until now, even though you think about writing him a letter on the pale green lined notepad you bought, the one that came from Staples in a pack with pink and blue, the one you thought would make you organized. You see the letter in your head, your handwriting, but that’s where it remains, because you can’t see afterwards. You don’t know what would happen after it would be received, don’t know how it would be taken, don’t know if it would brand you the wrong kind of dirty, the kind that makes you more of a freaky than fuckable.

Suddenly you start to rethink everything you thought you knew about being dirty. Is wanting sex dirty? Is desiring other people dirty? You don’t think using your vibrator is dirty, but still, you don’t do that as often as you used to. Even lying next to each other, you start to feel something well up from inside, and you’re torn between pushing it back and letting it take over. The words, much simpler ones than those you type into a screen, sit there, moved from your core up through your lungs, then your throat, until they are on the tip of your tongue, but you don’t. Or you can’t. You curl up under the covers and think about it, and try not to cry, try not to want.

You feel like you don’t know very much at all, but you do know this: That Dirty should not feel like this, sinful, scary, silent. Dirty should not be a code word for wanting but not having, for craving that never seems to end. Dirty, the good kind, should make you love your body more, love that it comes first, not last. You hope there is a time when Dirty will come back to you, mellow out, make its peace. Until then, it’s a word, a feeling, lurking around your edges, more work than play.

[This is cross-posted on behalf of Rachel from Lusty Lady. My review of Dirty Girls is found on CatalinaLoves.com]

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Sep 13 2008

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