Nov 13 2008
Image of Catalina by AlteredAperture.com
Here’s another HNT for you — I’m on my way to NYC today for the Sex Blogger Calendar Launch Party. I hope to see you there tomorrow!! If you can’t make it, be sure to buy your copy. I’ve had a sneak peek and it’s absolutely divine!
Oct 31 2008
I had a spiritual experience last night. Janice (pictured above) is a college buddy of mine who is diabetic, sings opera, loves purple, has always wanted to be a mommy, and practically lives her life based on Pink Floyd. She’s also one of the silliest sweetest people I know.
Last night I got to see Janice in Columbia, SC. But that’s not all! For one, she is finally pregnant, in fact she is VERY pregnant, with a girl!!!!! Also! She was singing Dark Side of the Moon with a live band in front of hundreds of screaming people! This was the first time she’s ever gotten a chance to sing Pink Floyd in front of others, and the fact that she was pregnant at the same time is nothing less than cosmically awesome. She belted her little heart out and she was damned good, everyone loved her! And she was so cute and adorable with her belly!! *squeeeeeeee* Her kid is definitely going to be musically inclined, that’s for sure.
We only went down to hear her sing and then we had to turn straight around come back home to NC, but I wouldn’t have missed that for the world. It was worth the trip. It was nice to see her, even for only a little bit. It got me thinking about how much I miss some of my friends all over the place and right here in town. I love my friends, they are nutty and crazy and each and every one of them are unique and beautiful. You know who you are!
Tonight is going to be awesome!!! I’m doing that CarnEvil thing tonight and I get to hang out with some local friends, watch belly dancing, watch burlesque, and tie up some bitches. Life, yeah life is good. There will be photos of the event tonight, it’ll be fun to see everyone in costume so stay tuned!
Oct 27 2008
The other day Jenn Martin came over and we were hanging out. The first time I suspended her it was upside down and very involved. This time around we were just chilling in the studio and I decided to do a much easier pin up style suspension on her.
I decided to put this up on CostumeCuties.com because it turned out so cute. But really and truly we were just spending the day talking and laughing and this came of it. I love it when that happens!! Jenn is a model-turned-friend, and that is a rare but awesome thing lol!!
I’m going to the Candy Ball on Nov 15th as a model and a photographer. It’s going to be fun to wear two hats at the same event lol!!
Oct 23 2008
I’ve got a lot of shit on my mind, trying to deal with a few things. One of which is J’s (the hubby) recent biopsy. We are still waiting on results. Normally I wouldn’t be worried, but the only reason why I am concerned is because J’s dad has melanoma and J’s gotten some atypical results on a biopsy before this one. I hope everything is ok.
Instead of stressing the day away I decided to do something drastic, something I never ever do. I decided to do something to relax. I drew a warm bath and enjoyed a nice soak, a nice smoke, and a nice glass of wine. I only feel guilty a little, after all I should be working. Hrm, maybe I need another bath lol!
Oct 20 2008
Happy New Toy Tuesday. Today instead of review something I’ve got here, I wanted to review VibeReview.com itself. We (bloggers) tend to test and report on a lot of products. We are asked to put our names with a company and expect that what we say is going to be backed up by the store we are representing. We are literally signing our name to it like a presidential campaign, “I am Catalina and I approve this message.” By the way, I posted this originally at Catalina Loves.com. It is reflective only of my opinion.
There’s been a lot of talk lately about the blogging review and affiliate program. Some people have been on the fence about which company we should get behind. My nomination and vote goes for VibeReview.com.
No, I don’t get paid to write my reviews from VibeReview.com - guess what? I don’t work for them in any capacity. That frees me up to say that I don’t like a product if I don’t like it. I can write my review to my specs. I don’t have to include any hoaky text, there are no real demands on my review other than test it, write about it, link to it. I choose to be an affiliate, so it works out that if you buy that product through my sites because I recommended it, then great, I get a 20% commission. Don’t plan on making a living this way, but it adds up and you can buy a nice pair of shoes!
If you haven’t noticed, aside from Liberator.com, the only sex toy store I represent is VibeReview.com. I choose to link my brands, Catalina Loves and Best Sex Bloggers.com, with theirs. Why am I so loyal and why is it that I love VibeReview.com and recommend it to other bloggers, and in particular to consumers? Because they have never once been anything but honest and genuine with me. Integrity goes a long way. I feel loyal to them because they are the little guy. They are scrappy. They want business and they provide better customer service than anywhere else I’ve seen. You know how it is - big companies aren’t too concerned about you unless you’re bringing in serious affiliate money.
Look at your choices. VibeReview.com is a fantastic company. Their commitment to the Blogger CommUNITY is so strong that though we haven’t worked out the details, they are willing to help sponsor the Butterfly Temptress Cancer Fund after another toy store (the sex shop I do not trust) rescinded their offer. All with just a phone call from me. No, it’s not that I’m amighty and powerful (well, I am kinda) but that their human compassion outweighs a net loss of income. That’s a company I want to do business with!
Oct 19 2008
See You At The Party!
Join us for the launch party and buy a copy of the NYC Sex Blogger 2009 Limited Edition Calendar on Friday, November 14, 2008 from 6:30 pm - 9:30pm at The White Rabbit (http://www.whiterabbitnyc.com).
Meet the bloggers who made it happen, and ask really nicely and you might even get your calendar signed. While admission to our party is FREE and open to the public, there will be a cash bar (with Happy Hour prices till 9PM), raffle tickets and calendars to purchase so please come prepared with some green to show your support and join in the fun.
Twelve of New York City’s most dynamic literary and sex positive women, along with photographer Stacie Joy, and the sex blogging CommUNITY have collaborated to create the New York City SexBlogger 2009 Limited Edition calendar in order to support Sex Work Awareness (http://www.sexwork101.com). Sex Work Awareness is an organization that trains sex workers in media skills and educates the public about issues that affect people who work in the sex industry. 12 of NYC’s finest writers, sex educators, film makers, and ordinary women are determined to see the stigma associated with sex work and workers removed.
Included in the calendar are Audacia Ray, Desiree, Diva, Elizabeth Wood, Jamye Waxman, Luz Alptraum, Mariella Ella, Rachel Kramer Bussel, Riese, Sinclair Sexsmith, Tess Danesi, and Twanna A. Hines. A full biography of each calendar model is available at http://sexbloggercalendar.wordpress.com/about.
The first 100 guests to arrive will receive a FREE gift bag from Babeland! Aside from amazing burlesque performers and organic orgasm-worthy cookies from FreeFoodsNYC, you can purchase your very own copy of the calendar. In addition, to supplement our fundraising efforts we will have a raffle, and we encourage you to buy a raffle tickets. $2 for 1, $5 for 3 and $10 for 10 will give you a chance to win prizes that include an Njoy Eleven, a Liberator Ramp, a Liberator Throe, a Rolling Toy Trunk from ForYourNymphomation, and a Museum Signed Print “Ally Bound” by Lochai. The list grows daily. A complete list will be posted on the calendar blog (http://www.sexbloggercalendar.wordpress.com).
If you are unable to attend the launch party, you can still buy your limited edition copy of the calendar directly through the Sex Blogger Calendar website or here on BestSexBloggers.com (look to the right).
About the NYC Sex Blogger 2009 Limited Edition Calendar:
For the latest news, a complete list of bios of each sex blogger featured in the calendar, our sponsors, and our CommUNITY of friends, please visit the Sex Blog Calendar Website.
Oct 18 2008
Trust Me... Does That Look Like A Girl Who Would Steer You Wrong?
Catalina’s Favorite Sex Blog Posts Of The Week! Thanks to Altered Aperture who makes me all pretty and then captures it on camera time and time again.
::psst… for more hot sex blog links go to Sugasm.com::
Oct 16 2008
Catalina by AlteredAperture.com
Okay, so technically this is a little more than half-naked, but one could argue that since you really only see my bum a little it still counts! Besides, I’m looking for a good excuse to show it off! I’ve been waiting all week for today! Big round of applause, please, for Ms. Nikki Nefarious who is the photographer behind AlteredAperture.com for making magic happen!
Oct 13 2008
This past weekend I went to Purgatory, the bi-monthly fetish even here in Charlotte. I had such a good time hanging out with friends and seeing everyone. The theme was military fetish, so I went for the pink pin-up style. mia and I went to this one together and she was so hot!
The shows were cool and I took some photos, of course. Here are a couple from the night, but if you want to see all of them, check out AlteredAperture.com.
The rest of them can be found here!
Oct 11 2008
Image of Catalina by AlteredAperture.com (Rigging by Ms. Nikki Nefarious)
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #151? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom.
This Week’s Picks
Stolen Time
“The sigh of a kiss that has been too long waiting is a wicked rush.”
Keeping things hot when everything hurts
“While it’s not as fun for him, what I love about those times is how sexy he makes me feel at a time when I probably feel the most worthless as a lover.”
Like lovers do…
“As soon as I got that groove, he felt it. His body started to tense up and tremble.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank
Editor’s Choice
At What Point Have You Crossed The Line?
See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.
Sex News, Reviews, & Interviews
Catalina loves Sgt. Major from Backdoor Bondage and Kink.com
Click Foreplay
The End of the Sex Writer?
Lust Objectified: Lelo’s Lily Vibe
Sex News Roundup
Sex Work
20 Questions With Janet Jacme
Busy Busy Busy
Erotic Writing and Experiences
Backward (One)
The Five Twenties - The Fifth Twenty
i Kissed a Girl
The love for guys in uniform
Natalie Gets Laid
A Night to Remember, ft. Mariella and VibeReview
Talk Dirty To Me
Will you suck it?
Your Gorgeous Polish Girlfriend Won’t Pose Just How You Imagined
NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Boymeat’s Boots
HNT: Lucky Heather 2
Kelly Zhang (Met Art)
Radka - OJ
Sex & Politics
Do BDSM and McCain Go Together Like Vinegar and Oil?
Invasion
BDSM & Fetish
3 days
Punished in the school gym
Sex Camp 2008: The Petting Zoo!
slut to the Mailbox ….. This Morning’s Task as Accomplished
Someplace I’ve never been, part 2
Sex Advice
Man-Handles: What to Do with His Nipples?
Sadie’s Advice for Craigslist Dating. Confession #151
Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Can Group Sex Get Your Man to Clean the House?
Channeling Jessica Rabbit
How I started paying for sex
Present Genitive
Seven Daily Sins: Lust
Trust
Oct 10 2008
Catalina by AlteredAperture.com
Catalina’s Favorite Sex Blog Posts Of The Week!
Catalina hates Myspace.com
Catalina loves 10 Sexy Things About Men
The Good Things List Lives On
Amazing Friends
Sunday Evening Fuck
Crawling In The Dark
Princess Donna and Kink.com Launch New Bondage and Public Sex Site: Public Disgrace
Madison Young Gets Tied Up, Caned, and Forced to Cum on Hogtied.com
Sgt. Major Puts Fetish Model Charlotte Brooke Through Outdoor Bondage on Sarge’s BDSM Clip Store
Reflections on The Bondage Past - Jade Marxxx and John Blakemore (H.O.M.)
Shots from Folsom
Folsom Coverage on BehindKink.com
Romanian Hottie Lea Lexis Gets Fucked In The Ass In Public
There’s a First Time For Everything (Confession #146)
Mz Berlin Does Lesbian Love Right in Friends and Lovers with Madison Young
Satine Phoenix is Good Enough To Eat In This Cannibal Fetish Scene from Muki’s Kitchen
Cleavage of the Day Updated for HNT
Thoughts of Dominant Wives and Submissive Husbands
::psst… for more hot sex blog links go to Sugasm.com::
Oct 09 2008
Athena Fatale is one of the nicest, sweetest, most sadistic and beautiful women I have met yet. Essentially she’s made of awesomeness soup. I met Jinx1313 at Mr S Leather when she was there for a photo shoot with Cortes Photo, she was going to shoot with Athena as well.
Once Athena arrived at the loft we all got to hang out for a bit and then she asked if I would suspend Jinx1313 for a photo. I could have hugged her right then!! Well of course I will suspend Jinx1313! And better yet I’ll do it in the bathroom.
The bathroom in the loft is about as big as my bedroom at home, with marble walls, marble garden tub, bidet, and more shower heads and nozzles coming out of the walls than House of Pain’s got rhymes. The best part of it all was the suspension point above the tub.
So there I am with two ridiculously hot women in a bathroom, one in sexy latex, one clad only in heels. What to do, what to do. You know, sometimes my life is just hard ;) Luke Degre let me borrow some of his hemp ropes and I went to town! The pic above is one of my favorites from the set.
But it gets much better. After a bit of posing and playing with Jinx1313, Athena gets a shower nozzle and turns the set into a water bondage shoot. Me? Oh yeah, I’m happy as hell at this point! Well I’m going to stop talking about it, after all a pic is worth a thousand words right? Well these are worth a million!
Oct 08 2008
Catalina by AlteredAperture.com
Well, it’s technically HNT, since I’m not completely exposed! However, this is from my first set of nudes that I did with Nikki (AlteredAperture.com) yesterday. I think they turned out pretty neat. There are several more on my Fetlife.com profile, if you’re curious. A very good excuse to sign up for Fetlife, if you haven’t already!
So let us know what you think (Nikki and I both want feedback!)
Oct 07 2008
Catalina with The Pleasure Swirl
There’s something about a glass dildo that makes it especially fun. Maybe it’s that you can easily chill the glass. Maybe it’s the weight of the glass. Maybe it’s the texture. Maybe it’s because they are so easy to clean and sanitize. Whatever it is, I am a fan of a good glass dildo. They are pretty.
This week, for New Toy Tuesday, I present to you The Pleasure Swirl. A smooth glass dildo with textured swirls all around the shaft and a nice ball tip to reach all the right spots. I’ve used it myself and I’ve used it on others and the popular consensus is that it feels good.
It’s not a dildo that will bring me to orgasm, but it’s nice to have nearby to slide in and play with while masturbating or as foreplay. Marky uses it on me and I get soaking wet within minutes of being fucked by it. He says it looks just as beautiful going in as one would imagine it would. We used it once for a little double penetration action - he slid it into my ass while fucking me and we both thought the combination was amazing!
I know you may have the (false) impression that glass dildos are way out of your price range. Take a look. This is a really reasonably priced toy and that doesn’t mean it’s cheap, in fact it’s great quality. Sure, you could spend hundreds, even thousands of dollars on erotic glass art, but if you’re just in the market for a nice glass dildo, you’re set with this selection at VibeReview.com!
I compared it to the Cyberglass Felicity, which I reviewed several weeks ago, and I don’t know if I could pick a favorite based solely on the toy. I’d have to say maybe the Cyberglass Felicity because there is more to it, but mostly I would choose the Felicity because it comes with a nice little velvet pouch that keeps it from “tinking” in my toy drawer with the other glass toys I have. My only complaint about the Pleasure Swirl is that it doesn’t have its own protective case or cover.
Don’t forget - it’s just over a month away until election day. Between then and now, if you use the Obama for President coupon link, you’ll save 10% on your order! Not bad, you can get off and save money - talk about stimulating the economy!
Oct 02 2008
Fivestar (above) is one of my favoritestest people in the world, see how fun she is? She suspended herself right there, pretty cool huh! This photo was actually taken before Folsom, but I thought it was the perfect intro photo. I won’t give commentary on these photos, I will just leave the details up to your imagination!
Sep 30 2008
This year my adventures at Folsom was epic. I was not working a booth and thus my personnage was neither tethered nor hindered from wanderings. So wander did I. Upon aforementioned wanderings I saw many amazing things, stuff, humans, etc. I will regale you with photos once I return home to the familiar photo uploading seat of doom which resides in my living room some 2,721 miles from where my butt rests at current. I promise the wait won’t hurt too much, just remember to breathe deeply and strongly and frequently. Place pillows around you in case you pass out, if you hit your noggin on a rogue table edge I can not be to blame. Are you breathing now? Good.
My day started off like any other day, except that I am across the country and sleeping at the loft at Mr. S Leather. The toils of the day before had me suspending Jinx 13 for a photoshoot with Athena Fatale at Mr. S Leather. There’s another Jinx who is a bondage model, and I got to suspend her, go figure! Life is silly that way. She’s not my Jinx, my Jinx was safetly situated in Charlotte NC at the time of the suspension. So yes, my body is still floating from the day of suspension and the following evening of partying til all hours with January Sareph and her man at the Citadel. Nearly drunk with exhaustion I peel myself out of the bed and help out with models. Accounting for models, finding clothing by scouring the workshop and pawing through racks and racks of latex, the heady scent nearly toppling me over on such a lovely morning. Invariably this takes over an hour longer than it should have, and I should have known better after dealing with models for as long as I have. Then Tchukon tells me to find something pretty for myself that I might walk around Folsom in Madam S latex. I happily oblige (though this takes me about 10 extra minutes to do). Once dressed and done with my duties I am off to take in the wondermous sight that is Folsom Street Fair.
I can’t account for all that I saw, for most of it was a blur of naked penis, glitter, and the occasional glittered naked penis doing cartwheels down the side of the street. There were also boobies, but the ratio of boobies to penis is so abysmal as to not even warrant stating. I saw no less than one dozen and one half blow jobs which is the point at which I stopped counting. There were blow jobs on the street, blow jobs in the windows above the street, blow jobs on the roofs above the windows above the street. The smell of leather and sweat were intoxicating and I drank in the fumes like a thirsty traveler along so many miles of desert road.
I saw various and sundry suspensions with ropes coming from tie points, ankles, breasts, wrists; strings coming from medical staples, thighs, arms. I saw people wearing outfits of rope, skirts of ropes, harnesses of rope. Rope died all the colors of the rainbow and worn with as much pride as the multicolored flags which adorned several of the windows.
I saw many things dear readers. I will show you a touch of what I saw when I am soonest able. Until then may my words sate you.
Sep 27 2008
Last night was my first night in town. I am staying with FiveStar for a few days, and then at the top of Stormy Leather for a few nights. Fivestar and I took in a quiet night of sushi and sake, but before that we literally hung out. She, being a rope fan like myself, is learning suspension so I let her tie me up and hang me. I was the first person that she has suspended, other than herself. Then she taught me some self suspension as well, so we got to geek out on that for a while and I was most happy.
Today I got to tie up a grown man I just met and suspend him in front of Lew Rubens, Kink.com’s Bondage Consultant. I didn’t die but I was nervous as all hell. He was very pleased with my rope handling skills and said that he’d like to get me out here more. I take this as a good sign ;) He also taught me about pulleys and how he introduced the bondage ring into the mix as well. I need to get my hands on both of those.
I also got a tour of the Armory here in SF. This is the home of Kink.com, one of my newest favorite places on Earth. This place has everything you could ever want or dream up for a fetish scene! I swear it was like being a kid in a candy shop. I’ve decided that I want a water bondage tank for Christmas :) I mean it! There are rooms and rooms of bondage gear, furniture, fucking machines, padded cells, dungeons, and all manner of sets. They even have free flowing espresso in the break room. See, everything a lady needs!
Tonight I get to hang out with FiveStar and Jiz Lee at Madison Young’s gallery, Femina Potens for a film screening centered around Erotica and Bicycling. I got to view FiveStar’s film last night, they are going to love it! I don’t want to give it all away, but she ties her own self to her bike and masturbates while filming herself, filming herself. Wow! She’s such a creative and awesome person! I love how her documentary style films!
After the screening we are going to a women’s only party at Stormy Leather. I have no idea what to expect, but I do know the girls from Crash Pad Series are going to be there so I am very excited about meeting them!! The last women’s party I went to in SF was nothing short of magic, and I’m certain it will be the same this time around too.
I love the vibe here, everything is so open and free. I just wish it weren’t so damned expensive to move out here. Ah well, I’m happy in the south and that is where I’m going to stay…unless an excellent opportunity arose for me that could afford such a location change. ;) We’ll see what plays out dear readers, we’ll see. But hey isn’t the internet great for spanning the distances? So at least I’ll be able to keep up with all the awesome people I’ve met here whilst on the other side of the country!!
Sep 27 2008
Yesterday I had such an amazing day! I got to hang out with Catalina the whole day and take photos. The best part was suspending her FOR THE FIRST TIME! You guys have got to see these pics! And you will, soon enough. I felt very honored to be the first to suspend Catalina and I had such a good time with it I suspended her twice! I am going to give Catalina the honors of posting the first image once she gets them.
I am also gearing up to head out to Folsom Street Fair in SF. I leave tomorrow at buttcrack and I will arrive there at 1ish SF time. I am going to stay until Tuesday afternoon and then I will head back to good ol Queen’s City. While I am gone you might not hear from me as I might not have regular access to the innerwebs. That’s ok, you can follow me at Twitter.com/MsNikkiNefarious to see what I’m up to.
I’m not going to talk about all the awesome that is set up to happen for me during this trip to SF, but I am going to say I would like happy thoughts and well wishes sent over my way for the next few days. It’s going to be intense ya’ll. I’m out.
Sep 21 2008
Sunday mia and I have a hair modeling thinger that we’re doing. This means that today we are spending a lovely day getting our hair cut and colored. Neither of us have a clue what they are going to do with us so it’s going to be interesting :D
I never know what to do with my hair so I chop it off and then get lazy and let it grow and do its own thing. I will miss being able to pull my hair in a ponytail if they cut it short, since I hate for my hair to get in my face when I’m working. Have you ever caught your hair in someone’s buckles while you’re trying to tie them up? I know right! Me too!
mia is nervous about her hair! When she walked in the room one of the stylists went nuts and grabbed her and started speaking Spanish. That guy was so excited about her hair, he was just all over the place! I knew they’d like her, she’s got amazing hair! I’ll post pictures (assuming they don’t scalp us!!). Wish us luck.
Walking a runway is going to be weird, I hope I don’t trip and bust my ass! Say goodbye to the mop ;)
Sep 20 2008
